Friday, August 20, 2010

How do I become more romantic?

here's my situation:


My girlfriend lives in AZ and I live in NC. I don't get to see her but once or twice every two months. I don't get to call her that often but I text her a lot, but sometimes she wants to text dirty to me. I'm not uncomfortable with doing it, it just feels awkward and I find myself not being able to think of anything. Any suggestions on how I to become a more romantic texter and talker?How do I become more romantic?
what is the problem


when she wants you to do that why don't you do that


look when you really love her you don't feel shyHow do I become more romantic?
you want to be more romantic or a ';dirty'; talker? well it doesnt matter, texting is better than talking on the phone becuase you have time to think of a response or you can ignore things you dont want to talk aobut. if some things make you awkward just ignore it and write what you want. its talking but with typing.
Hi dear,





No i seems you are a romantic..


You know some persons don't know how to show their feeling out.


So, sometime the opposite may feel like that.


You have to do only one thing,


Every person have some romantic feel but have to push that out into the feeling..





If you want to cure that, you have to feel the feeling which you have and you have to think your girl friend while you are free..





(think and act positive)


:)
let your guard down and try to not control everything you do and say. deep down everyone's a little crazy (in a good sexy way)...so open up, be real and let her know the truth...even if it sounds weird-she'll love the honesty!
Thing you must make to her is:





Intrinsic Romance


Fancy Curly Things


The Most Intrinsically Romantic Thing Ever


Impracticality


Personal Stuff


Your Time


Remembering Birthdays and Anniversaries


Pet Names


Style


Not Having Food On Your Head
Many men would like a girlfriend more like yours...if you wanna be more romantic, maybe change your gf?
have sex and practise
go see a chick flick mate

GUYS ONLY -- proper way to make the transition from friend to girlfriend?

I've been going out for 7 months with this guy I know at the company I work for. We both are rather old fashioned. He's 43 and I'm 35. Nothing romantic has happened yet, no hand holding, hugs or kisses! At work, we walk together every day for half an hour. On some weekends, we go out. He treats me to movies and dinners but seems he's sloooow!! He checks out my boobs but never makes a move!! We get along well, have an intellectual connection and lots of common interest. I want him to look at me as his girlfriend. He is not dating anybody else. In fact, he hasn't had a girlfriend in over 4 years. He's shy and is Catholic. What is going through his mind? How do I transition from pal to girlfriend? I don't want him to think I just want sex. But I like to have a tender romantic relationship with him and not just be his movie pal. How do I do that properly?GUYS ONLY -- proper way to make the transition from friend to girlfriend?
Make the first move. It seems like he wants you to.GUYS ONLY -- proper way to make the transition from friend to girlfriend?
Some guys like me, are shy. We don't know what is up until it's right there in our face. You should have a talk about it, tell him how much you care for him, and how much you want to be with him, and take it from there. That's about all you can do really. I'm a shy guy, but by the 7th month, i definitely would've gotten the point.
lol i dont like too read that much so i would say dump that b*tch!!!! say: bye @$$ hole we are through !! and date a YOUNGER MAN!!!
He is old enough to make the first move and if he wants to, he will. At 43 he has probably had other relationships and you at 35 have also. If you rush him, he might just run in the other direction, but talk slowly about getting older and wanting a lastine relationship. Careful go slow and good luck.
He's probably just as busy trying to make the transition from friend to boyfriend. Sounds like you're the one of the two with the guts to break the ice, and someone's gotta make the first move.





I know I suck at getting subtle hints. Sometimes, I see my fiancee getting frustrated, and I'll know that she was trying to tell me something, so I'll move closer and ask her to just whisper whatever it is in my ear. Girls seem to have this perpetual fear of doing or saying anything that would embarrass themselves or other people, that makes it impossible for them to communicate directly. Which means that, a lot of times, it ends up feeling like women want us to read their minds.





If this guy is anything like me, you're going to have to be direct. Wearing different clothes won't give him different ideas. You're speaking in morse code, and the only language he knows is English. Just tell him what's on your mind, or kiss him. He just needs some kind of sign from you that it's okay to move on, and that you're not going to think he's creepy or anything. You might think you're giving him hints, but when you're quiet, you come off as an ice queen, ESPECIALLY when you're looking sexy.





So, tone down the looks and open your mouth. Don't scare him into thinking you're a supermodel who is too good for him. He's a human being just like you.





Good luck.
He sounds like me, probably just really awkward about it and wants you to make the first move. Next time you walk with him, hold his hand or give him a hug when your finished. Sounds like you gotta rock his world :)
It could be that he's afraid of ruining the already good friendship he has with you. That's cool. If it's obvious that he likes you just tell him how you feel. Tell him that it makes sense for you 2 to take it to a different level. The romantic part of holding hands and kissing and beyond will happen if it's meant to, but don't push it. If it doesn't feel comfortable to either of you then perhaps you were meant to be friends. The fact that you're physically attracted is ok. When it's put to the test and you 2 finally do kiss and all that you'll know if it's right or not. If it's not then you 2 should agree that it didn't work and neither of you got hurt and resume your friendship. I've been in the same situation before. There was a girl in high school that I was good friends with. We dated a few times and kissed and held hands and beyond....we both talked about it and decided to just stay as friends. That was after high school, by the way. To this day we are still friends and she is married to another guy and we all get along fine. I'm glad we explored it though. I think had we not, we would always be wondering. Good luck. I hope it works out for the best, whatever happens.
Well, he may have confidence issues, or e.d., or something like that and is nervous about getting into a situation that he can't finish.





Here's the thing -- you set up the next date - make it a Saturday night so any ';tiredness'; excuses are out the window. You're going to cook him dinner, and he doesn't have to do anything. You're going to treat him because you want to do something nice for him. And you tell him that after dinner, you are going to rent dvd's so you can munch popcorn and relax. Make the room dark and romantic - make it a romantic movie. Wear ';accessible'; clothing, and sit close to him. And, if necessary, you make the first move - touch his leg and hold his hand and snuggle up to him.





If he doesn't go for at least a makeout session, there is something seriously wrong!
You need to tell him exactly how you feel. It sounds to me like he likes you but he's just shy when it comes to telling you how he feels. He obviously likes you or he wouldn't be spending so much time with you.
i think he scared of a new relationship, he don't wanna get dumped again.
there are three, things I can see. that could be the problem. you said, he had a girlfriend that broke up with him. he may still care for her. and just does not want to say anything about it.





second: it could be, the break up may have hurt him bad. and he may be afraid to get hurt again.





third: he may think you just see him as a friend, and that's all. he may be afraid to make a move. because he is afraid how you may react. that you may become angry, at him. then tell him you do not want to be friends any longer.





The truth, I feel the third, is you problem. he does not know how you feel about him, and he does not want to take the chance on losing a good friend.





So, the best thing to do, is just come, out and ask him, how he feels about you. in that way, you will then get your answer.





then you will know. for sure, and not worry any longer.





I wish you luck, but I think everything will work out fine.





Take Care,
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Sorry hun, but that is what maybe needed. You sound like w WINNER!, Good Luck
make a move kiss him put your hand out in the movies see if he will hold it that how i made my move with my gf
not to, not answer your question, but why do you keep asking the same question in like...a million different posts? its kinda annoying
Yeah, it seems you may have to make the first move. You may want to ask him how he's feeling. It's possible he's not interested in relationship with you, but it's just as possible that he's too fearful of rejection to make the first move.





You could wear your heart on your sleeve. Sit him down, talk to him, let him know you're interested....it's not an, ';Ok, I'm your girlfriend now'; type of thing, but let him know you want to be more than friends.





Or, you could play it a little more subtle. You say you don't hold hands or anything....next time you go out, give him a hug when he picks you up, or hold his hand....something to let him know you're enjoying your time with him. It could be that you aren't really giving him any signals to let him know you're interested.





Good luck either way!
Your best bet is to lay your cards on the table. I have friends like him and although they are great people, they have no self confidence and are terrified of rejection.


He sounds terribly submissive so make sure that's OK with you for at his age, he wont become aggressive if it's not in his nature.


You don't want to be bored silly 5 years down the road.


Good luck
Maybe he just wants a very good friend without the complications of a relationship.





Things change once that bridge is crossed, I know I have lost close friends after going to the next level.





Make sure this is something you both really want, and are you prepared to end your friendship if the intimate relationship does not workout.





Because it will end...
Chances are he's not dating someone else if he spends all this time with you. Ask him out on a picnic date, or something else that would be a secluded, just the 2 of you kind of thing. Make dinner for him at your house, or some other kind of personal gesture that would let him know you're interested in a romance. Even a small gift, like a copy of a book he was talking about, or a type/brand of wine that seems to be popular. Play on your strengths, you know his interests so use that to your advantage!! Good Luck!
When you're alone with him pretend to stumble and fall into his lap. Then apoligize and kiss him on the lips gingerly, innocently for about two seconds. See what his reaction is before you stand up. Then go from there. Some guys need to be hit with a metal frying pan (figuratively speaking) to get a clue.
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  • How do I get a girlfriend?

    I am 29 years old, never had a girlfriend.. Throughout my life I have fit most personality profiles women suppose to desire...I have been the nice guy, the bad boy, the romantic, the sensitive, I have helped oppressed women fight for their equal rights, and agreed with the ideas as women have fought so long and hard for in society. I have dated between 30-50 women within 15 years. I am college educated, very creative, and chivalrous, responsible, hard working...But no girlfriend...What do they want, what is missing?How do I get a girlfriend?
    ';I have helped oppressed women fight for their equal rights, and agreed with the ideas as women have fought so long and hard for in society';





    I will be blunt: women say they want a sensitive man, but they really want a gentleman. A gentleman wears the pants in the relationship, can hold his own in a fistfight, but always opens the door for his lady and listens to her. My advice is to concentrate on marriage oriented women. However, marriage-oriented American woman is an endangered species. If you are limited to American women, the last few are found in conservative churches. Honestly, though, you should start looking for foreign born women, or women who grew up overseas. Here is a good site to explain it. I disagree with some of the ideas (sex outside marriage for example) but the part about foreign women is really good.How do I get a girlfriend?
    Sometimes you really have to put yourself out there and find girls. Don't try to be desperate, just be cool and go with it. Do you know anyone that you could see yourself being with? If so, don't wait and go to them, start talking to them, and get to know them. Go out more and let people see your personality shine.
    there is always more to the story--what i suggest is that you ask someone know knows you. it could be the type of woman you are going for- this is not a question for someone reading a question could answer-ask a friend--and dont seem to clingy or eager to please- that is UNATTRACTIVE
    Do you have money?
    I don't know! To me you sound like a very nice person. Any woman should love you.

    What should I do for my 7 month ann. with my girlfriend?

    My 7 months date is coming up with my girlfriend


    but i am going to be away that day on a family vacation


    i want to do something really special that will totally show her how much i love her


    any ideas?


    I kinda want it to be a romantic surprise thing showing her how much i love her.


    PLEASE helpWhat should I do for my 7 month ann. with my girlfriend?
    nothing. wth is a 7 month anniversery? give her a kiss.What should I do for my 7 month ann. with my girlfriend?
    send her flowers...or a card
    take her to all the places that you guys have shared together, and then take her to a new one to make more memories (buy her something nice)
    Ask her to marry you...i think that will show how much you love her.

    How to get my ex girlfriend back?

    Hi, my Ex girlfriend told me to be more Romantic and show more Affection and I was having a lot of difficulty and she though she would try and make me Jealous and she basically cheated on me because she started flirting and getting Cuddly with her Ex and I was getting Pissed and she ditched me to go watch Star Trek with her Ex because it's Mid Terms and we were on break and they had rooms open to watch Movies and I got really Jealous and I was starting to get really pissed but I calmed down and though for a few minutes and lately she's been a bit avoiding, doesn't look me in they eyes and only replays,'; ya '; or,'; k '; which I found really rude of her but it's normal because she was losing interest because I wasn't doing my Job as a boyfriend and showing her I cared as much as I would love too have and then at the second Exam break I was gonna ask her why she was doing but she said she was going to her locker and I said,'; Alright, I'll wait here '; and she never came back so I got really pissed and ended the relationship and the next day she was talking to my friend and my friend told me why she was doing it and she was just trying to make jealous so I'd show I cared more and tomorrow I'm going to talk to her about it and I was thinking of saying,'; (friend) told me why you were getting all cuddley with (person) on Monday, What you did was immature of you and you made me really disappointed in you and at one point I considered never talking to you and its not just the Daniel thing, it's the no eye contact and constant avoiding and led me to believe you were just leading me on to break up with you and that's what I did because I believed it was what you wanted '; and explain to her how I'm sorry I wasn't showing her as much affection as I'd love too and explain the little things that probably werent noticeable but ment everything to me and tell her how much I love her and how I'd give my life for her in a heart beatHow to get my ex girlfriend back?
    If a girl needs to go that far to get attention, she has serious self-esteem issues. There is never any circumstance in which it is okay to cheat or get together with an ex to make your current jealous. Do not get back with her. Some girls are content with just knowing their man cares. They do not need constant reminders and that is the kind of girl you need. One with more confidence not only in herself, but in her feelings for you. Give yourself a break and leave yourself open to that kind of girl.How to get my ex girlfriend back?
    You just answered your own question
    Ya, that should work. That was just nasty of her though. I think that you want her back is proof enough that you care.
    Become a millionaire or a movie star! She will come back to you in a MINUTE!
    Apologize like you were planning too. AND BE MORE LOVING! IF YOU WERE YOU WOULDN'T NEED TO POST THIS QUESTION!!! :D
    Actions speak louder than words, talk is cheap. Show her in everything you do that you are sincere and mature enough to deserve her.





    However, if you two are playing games and trying to hurt one another, you are not ready for a relationship. If she is avoiding you, maybe you should cut her loose and see if she comes back to you. If she does then both of you need to work on the relationship and growing up and not hurting each other.

    Are these romantic ones funny?

    Do you love me?





    Of course





    Then whisper something soft and sweet in my ear


    Lemon meringue pie !


    I wish I had a penny for every boy that's asked me out.


    Wow, so you'd have enough to use a public lavatory then !


    What would it take to get you to kiss me ?


    An anaesthetic !


    Why is your face all scratched ?


    My girlfriend said it with flowers.


    How romantic.


    Not really, she hit me round the head with a bunch of thorny roses !


    I'm not rich like Jack, don't have a mansion like Russell or have a Porsche like Martin but I do love you and want to marry you.


    I love you too, but what was that you said about Martin !


    Do you like me ?


    Well, as boys go your OK, and the further you go the better !


    Where are you off to ?


    The doctors, I don't like the look of my husband


    Can I come with you ?, I can't stand the sight of mine !


    Could you be happy with a boy like me ?


    Maybe, If you weren't around too often !


    She's such a nice bird.


    She must be if she goes out with a worm like you !


    The computer dating agency picked me out as an ideal boyfriend ?


    But who wants to go out with a computer !Are these romantic ones funny?
    they are more of a reality these days.....





    girl:what do you like best about me.....my looks,my smile or the fact that i'm so understaning?


    boy:..........your sense of humour?Are these romantic ones funny?
    Hehe! I like the first one- lemon meringue pie!!





    Here's one I like too:


    Boy: ';Did you miss me?';


    Girl: ';How can I miss you if you won't go away?';
    better you read other jokes


    than submit the ones you know
    ummm, i thinking on it, some not romantic or funny, but i liked the doctor/husband one best ;-)
    LOL funniest joke of the week
    yes
    Ha ha ha.!!!


    Some good ones mate.!!!


    10/10.!!!


    Cheers.!!

    How to be a great girlfriend in a long distance relationship? please help?

    i live a few states away from my bf. I was wondering how we could keep our relationship..romantic. or hot. we've done sexual things but never had sex. We're both not ready. And also, how do I get over him hanging out with friends or going to school where I know girls will flirt with him? I know he won't cheat on me. And I won't cheat on him. But I would really like to show him that he has an amazing girlfriend. SO can you please help?How to be a great girlfriend in a long distance relationship? please help?
    hey i recently had the same thing happen. what you need to do is make sure you let him know how you feel all the time and always let hin know your there for him. also if you and him both have computers buy a webcam so you guys cann see eachother whenever your not together. plus that will spice it up a bit,


    feel free to email me with questions


    my email is briibabii_dgaf@yahoo.comHow to be a great girlfriend in a long distance relationship? please help?
    isnt it spring break there?


    go see him
    Phone sex?