Is it wrong to for me to stop being romantic with my girlfriend if she stops being romantic with me?

when me and my girlfriend first started dating, everything was great. we went out ,had fun, enjoyed each other. now, it seems that i can't ask her anything without her looking crazy or being jumpy. ireally like her and would do anything for her. but i'mnot going to keep putting up with this knowing i don't have to.she claims that she's just stressed over family matters and i try to understand,plus she is living with me and has no other place to go right now. we don't hold hands,we do kiss each other when we have to go our seperate ways.she said that she doesn't like to cuddle so i stop holding her in bed because of this. i don't want her to feel like i'm not attracted to her anymore, because i am(a lot). but how do i put the spunk back in our relationship with me knowing how she is?Is it wrong to for me to stop being romantic with my girlfriend if she stops being romantic with me?
maybe she stopped because ur not like being romantic enough. try turning the dial up to ten and really have a good time.Is it wrong to for me to stop being romantic with my girlfriend if she stops being romantic with me?
You can't put the spunk back in your relationship unless she is willing to try harder. If she won't let you cuddle with her anymore, then her feelings for you are dying. It sounds like you are doing all of the work here and she is not reciprocating. I would tell her that if she won't try harder and act more affectionate you are going to move on and if she continues acting the way she is, then I'd do it.
i'd say she doens't care about the relationship at all but still keeps it around for either the nowhere to go reason or the family problem. maybe she is going through a hard time, so i guess you should sit her down and say something like lately you have seemed more sad and more seperate from me, is anything wrong cause you can tell me. say that, if anything, and just try to stick it out a little longer
If you want to keep it alive, you gotta try man, you gotta try. If both of you give up on yourselves...ah, trouble ahead.





Maybe she really is having some problems? In that case, stick with her, stay romantic, and she'll come around.
u must help out to solve her stress


ask what make stress try to give a solution to her


makes simple jokes so when she smile it will reduce the stress


just be polite on her go out with just walk in park or movie to clear her mind from stress


massage her body with her permission


tell her u sad when she look stress
The way you put it in the question no it isn't ... you only get what you give, right? (like the song goes)
sit down and talk with her about it


tell her how this effect you.
yeah..its wrong..you should go further and treat her even more right way to show her how much you love her..no matter waht the hell happen ... and if she say no..then no...
talk with her about it


and be the sweetest man through her hard times:)
Some girls just aint all touchy feely. I had a girlfriend that liked to do it with me. But cuddling or doing anything that seemed mushy was not right. A person who never let her guard down. She grew up rough on the Indian rez so I don't think it's ever gonna change for her. Perhaps I confirmed her suspicions cause I'm not so hardened that I never let my guard down around my girlfriend.


Maybe you'll get through to her. You don't have to keep trying to be romantic. Every person is different. Every rose has its thorn. It's always darkest before the dawn. The more answers you read the more confused you'll get.
Two wrongs don't make a right.





Question: is she taking on a lot of responsibilities? Like working too hard, gotta pay the bills, her fam depends on her in some form? etc...





If so she's prob taking on the ';male'; role, yes even though your the male. I've seen this kind of thing happen before. IF this is it, then you have to turn it around to make her feel feminine again. Take some responsibilities (That are reasonable) off of her plate. Don't sex her up just yet...Jus try to do stuff to make her FEEL more like a woman (Shania Twain).





I Don't Know Thats IF this is what happening...?





Anyway bottom line you both have to try not just you, not just her. And you both have to speak up %26amp; not just ';assume'; stuff, when this happens all goes to ****.