Friday, August 20, 2010

How do I become more romantic?

here's my situation:


My girlfriend lives in AZ and I live in NC. I don't get to see her but once or twice every two months. I don't get to call her that often but I text her a lot, but sometimes she wants to text dirty to me. I'm not uncomfortable with doing it, it just feels awkward and I find myself not being able to think of anything. Any suggestions on how I to become a more romantic texter and talker?How do I become more romantic?
what is the problem


when she wants you to do that why don't you do that


look when you really love her you don't feel shyHow do I become more romantic?
you want to be more romantic or a ';dirty'; talker? well it doesnt matter, texting is better than talking on the phone becuase you have time to think of a response or you can ignore things you dont want to talk aobut. if some things make you awkward just ignore it and write what you want. its talking but with typing.
Hi dear,





No i seems you are a romantic..


You know some persons don't know how to show their feeling out.


So, sometime the opposite may feel like that.


You have to do only one thing,


Every person have some romantic feel but have to push that out into the feeling..





If you want to cure that, you have to feel the feeling which you have and you have to think your girl friend while you are free..





(think and act positive)


:)
let your guard down and try to not control everything you do and say. deep down everyone's a little crazy (in a good sexy way)...so open up, be real and let her know the truth...even if it sounds weird-she'll love the honesty!
Thing you must make to her is:





Intrinsic Romance


Fancy Curly Things


The Most Intrinsically Romantic Thing Ever


Impracticality


Personal Stuff


Your Time


Remembering Birthdays and Anniversaries


Pet Names


Style


Not Having Food On Your Head
Many men would like a girlfriend more like yours...if you wanna be more romantic, maybe change your gf?
have sex and practise
go see a chick flick mate

GUYS ONLY -- proper way to make the transition from friend to girlfriend?

I've been going out for 7 months with this guy I know at the company I work for. We both are rather old fashioned. He's 43 and I'm 35. Nothing romantic has happened yet, no hand holding, hugs or kisses! At work, we walk together every day for half an hour. On some weekends, we go out. He treats me to movies and dinners but seems he's sloooow!! He checks out my boobs but never makes a move!! We get along well, have an intellectual connection and lots of common interest. I want him to look at me as his girlfriend. He is not dating anybody else. In fact, he hasn't had a girlfriend in over 4 years. He's shy and is Catholic. What is going through his mind? How do I transition from pal to girlfriend? I don't want him to think I just want sex. But I like to have a tender romantic relationship with him and not just be his movie pal. How do I do that properly?GUYS ONLY -- proper way to make the transition from friend to girlfriend?
Make the first move. It seems like he wants you to.GUYS ONLY -- proper way to make the transition from friend to girlfriend?
Some guys like me, are shy. We don't know what is up until it's right there in our face. You should have a talk about it, tell him how much you care for him, and how much you want to be with him, and take it from there. That's about all you can do really. I'm a shy guy, but by the 7th month, i definitely would've gotten the point.
lol i dont like too read that much so i would say dump that b*tch!!!! say: bye @$$ hole we are through !! and date a YOUNGER MAN!!!
He is old enough to make the first move and if he wants to, he will. At 43 he has probably had other relationships and you at 35 have also. If you rush him, he might just run in the other direction, but talk slowly about getting older and wanting a lastine relationship. Careful go slow and good luck.
He's probably just as busy trying to make the transition from friend to boyfriend. Sounds like you're the one of the two with the guts to break the ice, and someone's gotta make the first move.





I know I suck at getting subtle hints. Sometimes, I see my fiancee getting frustrated, and I'll know that she was trying to tell me something, so I'll move closer and ask her to just whisper whatever it is in my ear. Girls seem to have this perpetual fear of doing or saying anything that would embarrass themselves or other people, that makes it impossible for them to communicate directly. Which means that, a lot of times, it ends up feeling like women want us to read their minds.





If this guy is anything like me, you're going to have to be direct. Wearing different clothes won't give him different ideas. You're speaking in morse code, and the only language he knows is English. Just tell him what's on your mind, or kiss him. He just needs some kind of sign from you that it's okay to move on, and that you're not going to think he's creepy or anything. You might think you're giving him hints, but when you're quiet, you come off as an ice queen, ESPECIALLY when you're looking sexy.





So, tone down the looks and open your mouth. Don't scare him into thinking you're a supermodel who is too good for him. He's a human being just like you.





Good luck.
He sounds like me, probably just really awkward about it and wants you to make the first move. Next time you walk with him, hold his hand or give him a hug when your finished. Sounds like you gotta rock his world :)
It could be that he's afraid of ruining the already good friendship he has with you. That's cool. If it's obvious that he likes you just tell him how you feel. Tell him that it makes sense for you 2 to take it to a different level. The romantic part of holding hands and kissing and beyond will happen if it's meant to, but don't push it. If it doesn't feel comfortable to either of you then perhaps you were meant to be friends. The fact that you're physically attracted is ok. When it's put to the test and you 2 finally do kiss and all that you'll know if it's right or not. If it's not then you 2 should agree that it didn't work and neither of you got hurt and resume your friendship. I've been in the same situation before. There was a girl in high school that I was good friends with. We dated a few times and kissed and held hands and beyond....we both talked about it and decided to just stay as friends. That was after high school, by the way. To this day we are still friends and she is married to another guy and we all get along fine. I'm glad we explored it though. I think had we not, we would always be wondering. Good luck. I hope it works out for the best, whatever happens.
Well, he may have confidence issues, or e.d., or something like that and is nervous about getting into a situation that he can't finish.





Here's the thing -- you set up the next date - make it a Saturday night so any ';tiredness'; excuses are out the window. You're going to cook him dinner, and he doesn't have to do anything. You're going to treat him because you want to do something nice for him. And you tell him that after dinner, you are going to rent dvd's so you can munch popcorn and relax. Make the room dark and romantic - make it a romantic movie. Wear ';accessible'; clothing, and sit close to him. And, if necessary, you make the first move - touch his leg and hold his hand and snuggle up to him.





If he doesn't go for at least a makeout session, there is something seriously wrong!
You need to tell him exactly how you feel. It sounds to me like he likes you but he's just shy when it comes to telling you how he feels. He obviously likes you or he wouldn't be spending so much time with you.
i think he scared of a new relationship, he don't wanna get dumped again.
there are three, things I can see. that could be the problem. you said, he had a girlfriend that broke up with him. he may still care for her. and just does not want to say anything about it.





second: it could be, the break up may have hurt him bad. and he may be afraid to get hurt again.





third: he may think you just see him as a friend, and that's all. he may be afraid to make a move. because he is afraid how you may react. that you may become angry, at him. then tell him you do not want to be friends any longer.





The truth, I feel the third, is you problem. he does not know how you feel about him, and he does not want to take the chance on losing a good friend.





So, the best thing to do, is just come, out and ask him, how he feels about you. in that way, you will then get your answer.





then you will know. for sure, and not worry any longer.





I wish you luck, but I think everything will work out fine.





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Sorry hun, but that is what maybe needed. You sound like w WINNER!, Good Luck
make a move kiss him put your hand out in the movies see if he will hold it that how i made my move with my gf
not to, not answer your question, but why do you keep asking the same question in like...a million different posts? its kinda annoying
Yeah, it seems you may have to make the first move. You may want to ask him how he's feeling. It's possible he's not interested in relationship with you, but it's just as possible that he's too fearful of rejection to make the first move.





You could wear your heart on your sleeve. Sit him down, talk to him, let him know you're interested....it's not an, ';Ok, I'm your girlfriend now'; type of thing, but let him know you want to be more than friends.





Or, you could play it a little more subtle. You say you don't hold hands or anything....next time you go out, give him a hug when he picks you up, or hold his hand....something to let him know you're enjoying your time with him. It could be that you aren't really giving him any signals to let him know you're interested.





Good luck either way!
Your best bet is to lay your cards on the table. I have friends like him and although they are great people, they have no self confidence and are terrified of rejection.


He sounds terribly submissive so make sure that's OK with you for at his age, he wont become aggressive if it's not in his nature.


You don't want to be bored silly 5 years down the road.


Good luck
Maybe he just wants a very good friend without the complications of a relationship.





Things change once that bridge is crossed, I know I have lost close friends after going to the next level.





Make sure this is something you both really want, and are you prepared to end your friendship if the intimate relationship does not workout.





Because it will end...
Chances are he's not dating someone else if he spends all this time with you. Ask him out on a picnic date, or something else that would be a secluded, just the 2 of you kind of thing. Make dinner for him at your house, or some other kind of personal gesture that would let him know you're interested in a romance. Even a small gift, like a copy of a book he was talking about, or a type/brand of wine that seems to be popular. Play on your strengths, you know his interests so use that to your advantage!! Good Luck!
When you're alone with him pretend to stumble and fall into his lap. Then apoligize and kiss him on the lips gingerly, innocently for about two seconds. See what his reaction is before you stand up. Then go from there. Some guys need to be hit with a metal frying pan (figuratively speaking) to get a clue.
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  • How do I get a girlfriend?

    I am 29 years old, never had a girlfriend.. Throughout my life I have fit most personality profiles women suppose to desire...I have been the nice guy, the bad boy, the romantic, the sensitive, I have helped oppressed women fight for their equal rights, and agreed with the ideas as women have fought so long and hard for in society. I have dated between 30-50 women within 15 years. I am college educated, very creative, and chivalrous, responsible, hard working...But no girlfriend...What do they want, what is missing?How do I get a girlfriend?
    ';I have helped oppressed women fight for their equal rights, and agreed with the ideas as women have fought so long and hard for in society';





    I will be blunt: women say they want a sensitive man, but they really want a gentleman. A gentleman wears the pants in the relationship, can hold his own in a fistfight, but always opens the door for his lady and listens to her. My advice is to concentrate on marriage oriented women. However, marriage-oriented American woman is an endangered species. If you are limited to American women, the last few are found in conservative churches. Honestly, though, you should start looking for foreign born women, or women who grew up overseas. Here is a good site to explain it. I disagree with some of the ideas (sex outside marriage for example) but the part about foreign women is really good.How do I get a girlfriend?
    Sometimes you really have to put yourself out there and find girls. Don't try to be desperate, just be cool and go with it. Do you know anyone that you could see yourself being with? If so, don't wait and go to them, start talking to them, and get to know them. Go out more and let people see your personality shine.
    there is always more to the story--what i suggest is that you ask someone know knows you. it could be the type of woman you are going for- this is not a question for someone reading a question could answer-ask a friend--and dont seem to clingy or eager to please- that is UNATTRACTIVE
    Do you have money?
    I don't know! To me you sound like a very nice person. Any woman should love you.

    What should I do for my 7 month ann. with my girlfriend?

    My 7 months date is coming up with my girlfriend


    but i am going to be away that day on a family vacation


    i want to do something really special that will totally show her how much i love her


    any ideas?


    I kinda want it to be a romantic surprise thing showing her how much i love her.


    PLEASE helpWhat should I do for my 7 month ann. with my girlfriend?
    nothing. wth is a 7 month anniversery? give her a kiss.What should I do for my 7 month ann. with my girlfriend?
    send her flowers...or a card
    take her to all the places that you guys have shared together, and then take her to a new one to make more memories (buy her something nice)
    Ask her to marry you...i think that will show how much you love her.

    How to get my ex girlfriend back?

    Hi, my Ex girlfriend told me to be more Romantic and show more Affection and I was having a lot of difficulty and she though she would try and make me Jealous and she basically cheated on me because she started flirting and getting Cuddly with her Ex and I was getting Pissed and she ditched me to go watch Star Trek with her Ex because it's Mid Terms and we were on break and they had rooms open to watch Movies and I got really Jealous and I was starting to get really pissed but I calmed down and though for a few minutes and lately she's been a bit avoiding, doesn't look me in they eyes and only replays,'; ya '; or,'; k '; which I found really rude of her but it's normal because she was losing interest because I wasn't doing my Job as a boyfriend and showing her I cared as much as I would love too have and then at the second Exam break I was gonna ask her why she was doing but she said she was going to her locker and I said,'; Alright, I'll wait here '; and she never came back so I got really pissed and ended the relationship and the next day she was talking to my friend and my friend told me why she was doing it and she was just trying to make jealous so I'd show I cared more and tomorrow I'm going to talk to her about it and I was thinking of saying,'; (friend) told me why you were getting all cuddley with (person) on Monday, What you did was immature of you and you made me really disappointed in you and at one point I considered never talking to you and its not just the Daniel thing, it's the no eye contact and constant avoiding and led me to believe you were just leading me on to break up with you and that's what I did because I believed it was what you wanted '; and explain to her how I'm sorry I wasn't showing her as much affection as I'd love too and explain the little things that probably werent noticeable but ment everything to me and tell her how much I love her and how I'd give my life for her in a heart beatHow to get my ex girlfriend back?
    If a girl needs to go that far to get attention, she has serious self-esteem issues. There is never any circumstance in which it is okay to cheat or get together with an ex to make your current jealous. Do not get back with her. Some girls are content with just knowing their man cares. They do not need constant reminders and that is the kind of girl you need. One with more confidence not only in herself, but in her feelings for you. Give yourself a break and leave yourself open to that kind of girl.How to get my ex girlfriend back?
    You just answered your own question
    Ya, that should work. That was just nasty of her though. I think that you want her back is proof enough that you care.
    Become a millionaire or a movie star! She will come back to you in a MINUTE!
    Apologize like you were planning too. AND BE MORE LOVING! IF YOU WERE YOU WOULDN'T NEED TO POST THIS QUESTION!!! :D
    Actions speak louder than words, talk is cheap. Show her in everything you do that you are sincere and mature enough to deserve her.





    However, if you two are playing games and trying to hurt one another, you are not ready for a relationship. If she is avoiding you, maybe you should cut her loose and see if she comes back to you. If she does then both of you need to work on the relationship and growing up and not hurting each other.

    Are these romantic ones funny?

    Do you love me?





    Of course





    Then whisper something soft and sweet in my ear


    Lemon meringue pie !


    I wish I had a penny for every boy that's asked me out.


    Wow, so you'd have enough to use a public lavatory then !


    What would it take to get you to kiss me ?


    An anaesthetic !


    Why is your face all scratched ?


    My girlfriend said it with flowers.


    How romantic.


    Not really, she hit me round the head with a bunch of thorny roses !


    I'm not rich like Jack, don't have a mansion like Russell or have a Porsche like Martin but I do love you and want to marry you.


    I love you too, but what was that you said about Martin !


    Do you like me ?


    Well, as boys go your OK, and the further you go the better !


    Where are you off to ?


    The doctors, I don't like the look of my husband


    Can I come with you ?, I can't stand the sight of mine !


    Could you be happy with a boy like me ?


    Maybe, If you weren't around too often !


    She's such a nice bird.


    She must be if she goes out with a worm like you !


    The computer dating agency picked me out as an ideal boyfriend ?


    But who wants to go out with a computer !Are these romantic ones funny?
    they are more of a reality these days.....





    girl:what do you like best about me.....my looks,my smile or the fact that i'm so understaning?


    boy:..........your sense of humour?Are these romantic ones funny?
    Hehe! I like the first one- lemon meringue pie!!





    Here's one I like too:


    Boy: ';Did you miss me?';


    Girl: ';How can I miss you if you won't go away?';
    better you read other jokes


    than submit the ones you know
    ummm, i thinking on it, some not romantic or funny, but i liked the doctor/husband one best ;-)
    LOL funniest joke of the week
    yes
    Ha ha ha.!!!


    Some good ones mate.!!!


    10/10.!!!


    Cheers.!!

    How to be a great girlfriend in a long distance relationship? please help?

    i live a few states away from my bf. I was wondering how we could keep our relationship..romantic. or hot. we've done sexual things but never had sex. We're both not ready. And also, how do I get over him hanging out with friends or going to school where I know girls will flirt with him? I know he won't cheat on me. And I won't cheat on him. But I would really like to show him that he has an amazing girlfriend. SO can you please help?How to be a great girlfriend in a long distance relationship? please help?
    hey i recently had the same thing happen. what you need to do is make sure you let him know how you feel all the time and always let hin know your there for him. also if you and him both have computers buy a webcam so you guys cann see eachother whenever your not together. plus that will spice it up a bit,


    feel free to email me with questions


    my email is briibabii_dgaf@yahoo.comHow to be a great girlfriend in a long distance relationship? please help?
    isnt it spring break there?


    go see him
    Phone sex?

    I know its early but I just came up with the perfect place to ask my girlfriend to prom this spring.?

    If we are still dating, I'm going to go to the top of Mt Washington in Pittsburgh and ask her in the area where you have a view of the entire town. The only problem is I have no idea how to actually ask her. I know she would rather have it spelled out somewhere, but i'm open to all ideas, as long as they are romantic, not funny. SO what does everyone think would be the best, most romantic, way to ask her?I know its early but I just came up with the perfect place to ask my girlfriend to prom this spring.?
    Mt. Washington, huh? Maybe you could tell her you brought her up there to ask something about chopping down a cherry tree. Then again...I know its early but I just came up with the perfect place to ask my girlfriend to prom this spring.?
    I don't know how the view is, but if there's a rooftop or clearing that she can look out and see clearly you could write, ';Prom?'; on it great big. Even if it's a business they may let you do it because it's so effin' cute. Or if you want something easier and just as adorable you could have a picnic and bring a blanket that says, ';Will you go to prom with me?'; on it so that when you lay it out she'll see it. Good luck! You're a thoughtful boy, thinking of these cute things to do for prom!
    wow i hope shes really sweet becuase thats really nice of you to want to ask her formally! what do u mean if your still dating? if you really dont know if you will still be dating, wait untill closer to the prom to make sure its going well. I know that sounds sucky but if your going to do something that sweet make sure shes not going to dump you. ya know? good luck!!!





    Oh, just to make your future wife feel extra special, make SURE that your proposal is wayyyyy nicer than what you do for your prom date, or she will feel horrible. and make sure shes the one! good luck again!
    That sounds so sweet! For me I'd rather have the guy ask me, but spelling it out works too.


    You could buy her favorite flowers and give them to her...or you could have her open a box and spell it out that way, which ever way you do it I'm sure she'll love it and say yes :)
    Dude, it's prom and she's your girlfriend. It's not like you're proposing to her. This shouldn't be such a big deal.
    you're asking her to prom not to marry you.
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  • Is it ok that my girlfriend has a crush on her ex?

    Hello, the other night I was talking with my GF about how uncomfortable I am with her contact with her ex and she described it as a crush... I believe its much more than that because they have been exchanging romantic letter since day one of our relationship. She says she loves me and to my knowledge she hasn't physically cheated on me, but emotionally I am deeply hurt... Is there anything I can do?Is it ok that my girlfriend has a crush on her ex?
    Dude, come on. Leave this girl and find another one, seriously.

    How can i make my anniversary as romantic as possible?

    im going to take out my Girlfriend who i have been with for a year and are anniversary is in 3 weeks im trying to do the best i can to make shure its as romantic as humanly possible i live in miami florda so if someone can just suggest what i should do to make it as romantic as possibleHow can i make my anniversary as romantic as possible?
    DO NOT do generic romantic stuff. You need to do special things that have a significance to your relationship. Take her to where you first meet and have a nice dinner. Or do something she has never done before.How can i make my anniversary as romantic as possible?
    picnic dinner on the beach. bring some music. candles. look at the stars after you eat. pretty sure any girl would think thats romantic. =D
    You and her on a boat with candles and give her flowers, some romantic music and dinner. Maybe dance a bit on the boat... *fantasizing*
    Take her to a place for dinner. (A place you KNOW she likes and preferably romantic and expensive. Girls consider you taking them to an expensive place as a compliment) Definitely get her a gift and definitely let her win every single thing. Even if you know she's wrong because chances are, you might end up in an argument which will surely ruin the mood. Then if you're far enough in your relationship for it...Rose petals, candles, mood music... you know the rest. But take it slow, make sure she's ready and don't just rush into it. Kissing, cuddling, and spooning up to it can make all the difference in her eyes.
    Do her! lol but include wine and chocolate for sure.
    Take her on a trip put dont tell her. Just make sure you tell her to get some days off.or take out to a beautiful place.

    What/How should I give my girlfriend a promise ring?

    My girlfriend and I have been dating for three months now. We are both in love and often talk about our future plans. I really want to get her a promise ring, but I'm not sure what to get? I was thinking a small silver ring with a small diamond...does this sound right? My girlfriend is also IN LOVE with the movie The Notebook. Does anyone have any ideas of some romantic ways to give her the ring? Thanks!What/How should I give my girlfriend a promise ring?
    awww, well maybe something like this ..





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    does your town have like, a public christmas tree they light up or something? cause if you do some night near christmas time go out and see a movie like ';four christmases'; or something and after the movie walk around downtown and get some hot coco after you guys talk (make sure youre by the lit up tree) and you are about to head home pull out the ring and give it to her





    good luck! hope i helpedWhat/How should I give my girlfriend a promise ring?
    You are obviously still young so you should know, the decisions you make now have the ability to mold the rest of your life. I think the idea of a promise ring is very sweet but three months is too soon to be making future plans. You can't truly know someone in only three months. Also, before you give her the ring, be sure that you are 110% serious about your commitment. There are too many guys out there taking advantage of naive girls.
    A nice thin silver band with a small stone will be lovely. I don't really think it's necessary for it to be a diamond, but keeping the stone in that colour family is a smart idea. The white colour of the diamond will ensure that the ring will look great no matter what she's wearing. Maybe consider a cubic zirconia?





    As for the romantic way to give her the promise ring...


    There is a scene in the Notebook where Noah teases Allie to lie in the street with him. They lye there together in the middle of the street holding hands and watch the lights change. (see the first link below for the video)


    Maybe you could do this with her? Maybe say something like ';lets see what happens when the light turns green'; .. slip her the ring some how when the light changes green??


    I guess that will count on your creativity.








    Also.. the second link below shows what happens right after the streetlight scene.. after you give her the ring.. maybe you'll want to re-enact this scene? SO romantic.. !
    Wow, only three months? And already the ring? That seems like it's a bit soon (I've been with my boyfriend for almost a year and a half and we still haven't gotten that far yet, though I know it's coming soon; we also talk about our future plans all the time) but it's your relationship (just make sure she's ready for it too). Good luck with it. The ring sounds nice. Hm...I've never seen the notebook, but maybe you could give it to her while watching it together, maybe put it in the popcorn or something.
    Well... You could get her a little diary thingy that she could write in when ever she wanted, the movie after all is called ';The Notebook';... And you could put the ring in that, and write her a note to go with it.





    Also, trying doing some sort of pic-nic thing (near a lake, like in the movie)
    Just say:


    When you look me in the eyes...And tell me that you love me, everything's all right, when you're right here by my side...when I hold you in my arms,I know that its forever..I Just got to let you know...never want to let you go. Cuz when you look me in the eyes


    and tell me that you love me, everything's all right...when you're right here by my side. When you look me in the eyes.


    I catch a glimpse of heaven...





    GOOD LUCK!



    Idea: It's a romantic idea


    The ring itself, has to be something that you like or you think she would like.You know her likes..but once it's from the heart, I am sure she will appreciate it. Maybe you can give her for valentines day :)
    you can't fall in love in three months, i promise.


    you think you are, but in realtity you aren't.


    if you guys are in love, wait till your one year anniversary.





    promise rings, isn't a thing to joke about.



    A gold band with maybe the words i love you on the inside and a small diamond on the outside it would make me smile but if you read my question and answer it you'll see im not doing so good!


    oh, well good luck
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    buy the movie and put the ring it the case.. lol k fine kinda cheesy but...
    ride boat in a lake w/ ur promise ring... u give her the ring when it's the right time while ur on the boat.

    Okay i just need other opinions on what happened with me and my best friend?

    alright ill try not to make this long. but a lot went down. please help, i just need closure.





    so i became friends with this girl, lets call her lily. Me and lily were BEST friends for exactly a year. we did everything together and never fought. we always made eachother laugh. whenever there was tense times we'd give eachother space and come back to eachother happy as can be.


    we became friends because she entered 8th grade with years of private school experience, and amazingly we had been best friends in kindergarden. so we immediatly clicked. i taught her things on real teenage life, and she taught me how to have extreme fun. lily came from a sorta strict christian family, and her parents always looked at her like an angel. my family's a little more loose and i could get away with things, and have more freedom than her. which never seemed to be that much of a conflict. except i got the feeling her parents never really liked me for teaching her ';crazier'; things.


    anyway, it just got really bad as soon as we entered high school. we were excited to finally be in one class together and we definitely agreed it was are favorite. it was gym and everyone was like a family in there. the guys and girls. excluding the weird people (not to be mean) i guess you could say the more ';popular'; people stayed together ( that was us ) since i was more outgoing and knew more people i guided lily into the people of the class.


    things came to a head when i got really close with a guy in the gym class. nothing romantic, he had a girlfriend, we we're just best friends. we talked every night on the phone. so eventually i think lily felt almost ditched for him, although i spent equal time with them in class, and more with her out. so lily decided she was going to hate him out of spite. whenever i wanted to spend time with them together she'd walk away because she couldnt stand him, although he was always nice to her. i think she stopped liking him after she found out he had sex (remember christian family). but that didnt bother me, its high school for crying out loud.


    anyway she got mad at me numerous times over him, when he shouldnt have effected anything. the only thing i could tell myself was that she was jealous i was close to a guy, and the guy she liked had a girlfriend.


    so then i eventually stopped being friends with him. it wasn't really for her, just because he was doing things to me i didnt really like. but she probably had like a 20% effect on my decision. so after that we started to become better. we were talking and hanging out and i was so happy. then ofcourse she was starting to give me attitude again. i was so confused i hadnt done anything. was never really clear to why she was acting hostile towards me but then she found a reason.


    she had told me who she liked.


    we'll call him alex. alex is probably the hottest guy in the freshman class. he's a pothead, and only hooks up. but still a funny nice guy.


    alex is in two classes with me, gym and history. history class we talk all the time and became friends. but gym my attention is usually towards other people so lily had no idea we were that comfortable with eachother. one day i sat a couple seats behind her and the guy i liked was infront of me ( not alex someone else), because alex was sitting next to lily.


    when i saw this i thought. good now they'll finally have a chance to talk to eachother. but lily made no effort at all. instead alex became bored moved behind me to talk. i saw nothing wrong with this because we're friends and he came to me. so he started messing around with me, taking my phone pulling my hood over my head, etc. i could definitely call this flirting, because he's just like that. so ofcourse im laughing and stuff, so i could understand how lily maybe got jealous over him talking to me. but there wasnt much i could do. it wasnt one sided. so she started to ignore me ofcourse, her only method.


    then i finally got her to talk to me. she said something like,


    '; you knew i liked him and you just kept flirting with him. you flirt with every guy because you think they like and you can get anyone you want. you just want to be the center of attention all the time.';


    i was speechless. i would not call what i was doing flirting. maybe from him, but to me were just friends. alex doesnt give girls the time of day unless, 1. he's hooking up with them. 2. he's making fun of them. or 3. he knows they dont like him and they just want to be friends.


    and i would say im no. 3.


    plus i havent had a boyfriend this school year and i hate girls that are way to loud. so i couldnt believe my best friend was saying these things about me. so once i THOUGHT things were better, because we talked it out, i messaged her on facebook the next day. all i said was hey. then she logged off. eventually she deleted our photo album, and finally deleted me as a friend.


    all i could think was HOW IMMATURE. i had not once gotten mad with her through our whole friendshipOkay i just need other opinions on what happened with me and my best friend?
    It happens alot, your best friend leaves you because of a guy. you need to understand that love is stronger than friendship. however, she should have controlled her emotions and realized that you were not flirting with him. Just give her space and when she is back to her senses she will come to you and work it out. If she doesnt than you must know that she is not a true friend and you dont need to be friends with someone who would give up a good friendship over a silly reason.Okay i just need other opinions on what happened with me and my best friend?
    idkkkkkk??????
    High school can get crazy. It's really hard for girls to spend time with guys without someone thinking they are flirting. When you're hanging out with guys who flirt a lot, think about what your actions look like to people around you. Sometimes when you're just having fun with a guy friend it looks like more than fun to others. Also, is it possible that ';Alex'; is in to you? Make sure you don't lead him on!





    About your friend ';Lily';, it sounds like you two we're really close. Don't give up on your friendship! If it was strong, you can pull through this. She might be a little jealous about the attention you're getting from guys, or maybe she's uncomfortable with it because of her religious background. Maybe she's just worried about losing you to a guy, or becoming a third wheel. Give her some time to cool down, and then try talking again.





    If she won't come around, maybe you'll need to move on. I had some troubles with a best friend a couple of years ago. It was really painful for me and my other friends. In the end, our group split up, but the friendships that were left were stronger and better than they were before.

    Can someone please translate a romantic message from English to Russian?

    Hi, I would like to send the following text message to my girlfriend's telephone. She is Russian. Can someone please translate (in latin alphabet)? ';Dear Sasha, how are you? Are you okay these days? I want you to know that I still sleep with two pillows. I rest my head on one and hold the other in my arms, imagining it is you. I kiss your lips.';Can someone please translate a romantic message from English to Russian?
    Three answers and I still have to write the fourth one... O tempora, o mores *eye roll* And they even made a boyfriend from your Sasha ...


    Sorry, I am back to business...











    Dorogaya Sasha, kak ti? U tebia seychas vsio OK? Ya hochu chtob ti znala, chto ya vsio eshcho splu s dvumia podushkami. Na odnoy lezhit moya golova, a druguyu ya obnimayu, predstavliaya chto eto ti. Tseluyu tvoi gubi.








    MY COMMENT:


    I could write ';eshcho'; differently, it isn't a straight transliteration, it should be ';yeshchio';, but I think, the less letters are in this word the better is a chance to understand it.





    Good luckCan someone please translate a romantic message from English to Russian?
    Дорогая Саша, как дела? Все ли у тебя в порядке в последнее время? Хотел тебе сказать, что я по-прежнему сплю на двух подушках. Кладу голову на одну из них и обнимаю другую, представляя, как будто это ты. Целую.





    wow... that was embarassing...
    Дорогой Sasha, как дела ? Являются Вами хорошо в эти дни? Я хочу, чтобы Вы знали, что я все еще сплю с двумя подушками. Я остаюсь моя голова на одном и держу другой в моем оружии, воображая, что это - Вы. Я целую ваши губы
    Dorogoi Sasha, kak tvoi dela? Vceo khorosho li u tebiya?


    Ya khochu shtobi ti znala , shto ya do sikh pore prodolzhaiu spatcch s dvumya podushkami Ya kladu glovu na odnu podushku i druguyu derzhu pod moimi rukami vobrazhaya shto eto ti . Tseluyu tvoi gubi.

    Question AND A WARNING, PLEASE SHARE THOUGHTS!?

    Okay so... my friend has a girlfriend, has had i should say, for about a year now, he is totally obsessed with her, he destroyed his myspace page and turned it to a dedication page to her, he cut off everyone and only pays attention to her, he constantly sends her lovey dovey texts to her.





    OKAY, HERES WERE IT GETS SAD/SCARY, when i do hang with him, he always goes on about how he plays her and tries to tell me how to act towards a girl.... HE PUT THIS WHOLE ACT ON TO GET HER TO HAVE SEX WITH HIM. he now constantly asks to have sex with her, and she is starting to give in and is highly considering it. the sad thing is that he really doesnt pay much attention to her irl, he sends texts all day long and they might hang out once a week(mostly because he wants to **** her) ill ask him if he wants to hang but he will say hes busy with her(texting her) its kind of sad that shes falling for him in a way and might have sex with him. i havent talked to him in about a month now, and i mean talk, i havent even texted him. he has definately changed her and i am wondering what the outcome of all this will be. HIS BIRTHDAY JUST PASSED 2 WEEKS AGO so i have a strong feeling he used that as his reason for sex. WORST PART IS, THEY ARE ONLY 14





    to make things short: my friend puts on a romantic act for his girlfriend just so she will have sex with him, and now hes openly asking her for it, and shes starting to consider it. and they are both only 14





    Warning: if a guy seems overly romantic or obsessed, think about this story.





    question: what do you think of my ';friend'; and his girlfriend? and does he have a mental problem?(remember hes only 14)Question AND A WARNING, PLEASE SHARE THOUGHTS!?
    Yeah, she's stupid. I mean, I guess she's still really young though, and might not recognize this for what it is. Most of us can tell when a guy is a player because he will act the same way that your friend does.


    If I were you, I would tell him to enjoy it while he can because when women get older, they do NOT fall for that kind of thing.


    Most of us know that when a guy is talking quite a bit about having sex, or trying to get us to have sex, that that is all he wants, no matter what else he is doing to try to convince us that he 'loves' us. Most guys, if they truly love and respect their girlfriends, won't even bring up sex or at least won't pressure them into it.


    it's really obvious.


    After she goes through this, she will learn, though.


    Tell your friend he isn't so smart. Seriously, all of the players do that, he just thinks he's smart because he's a little kid (have his balls even dropped yet?). He probably doesn't even know anything about having sex, lol. 14? gross.


    If I were you, I would let the girl know about it, just to warn her though. Don't tell her that it's you. Set up a fake e-mail account and e-mail her through that.Question AND A WARNING, PLEASE SHARE THOUGHTS!?
    not mental just seriously messed no one i know is into that and im 14 sop actually ya maybe mental
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    Dearest Sexy,





    Thank you again for being so good to me. You have a long history of sending very nice, poetic, thoughtful emails. I am not as creatively inclined but I'd like to tell you some things from the heart. You are full of kindness. I can trust you, and I have immense confidence in you. You have personal integrity which I find admirable, respectable, and endlessly attractive.





    My life revolves around Nessa most of the time, and you have never made me feel bad about not being able to give you my full attention. I always knew I had to be extra careful in choosing who to spend time with because of having an impressionable, vulnerable young person in my care. Therefore I did not want to get in over my head too quickly, and lose sight of what is important. But I've gotten to know you over the past many months, and since I have a moment, I wanted to take the time to make sure you know how much I appreciate you.





    First of all I want to thank you again for being so flexible and understanding. You see that I do not have the freedom of a single person, and even though you do not have a child of your own you understand as if you did. In fact you work together as a team when we're all together, especially the little details such as holding a door or helping with a jacket. Those things you do I deeply appreciate and make you a hero to me. I know you well enough to know that you're not just putting on an act, you are just a naturally helpful soul. Plus you set such a good example in front of my girl, and you can't even put a value on something like that especially when there has never been a good example like that in her life before. The fact you treat me well reflects back to her so it's a double good deed.





    If I never got mixed up with a bad guy many years ago, if history could be changed I simply wish I could have had a child with you instead. Had we somehow been able to meet a decade ago, wouldn't things be different. The imagination can crank out endless possibilities but perhaps the right time never was back then, for either of us. We only have today, and the mystery of the future to work with. Fantasizing about what could have happened in the past is useless, so that leaves fantasizing about the future.





    I don't believe in fate or destiny, I feel that what happens in life is largely influenced by acting upon what you want to happen. In a way I think it's a mistake to lay back and think ';this was meant to be,'; because then people stop putting forth an effort and don't have to make decisions. And that line of thinking can also wrongly justify staying in a bad situation, such as in abuse-- such if someone already has it in their head that ';this was meant to be,'; and is too stubborn to see things falling apart. So, even though it is romantic to think that you and I were ';meant to be,'; I think it is far more more beautiful to know that some things really are in our control. I want you. (Not just sexually.) Today, and tomorrow, and thereafter, and I am willing to work for it and work with you to achieve mutual goals.





    Thank you so much for being a part of my life. Thank you for coming into the New Year with me. This is very special to me. You are very special to me. You have given me hope and a sense of belonging. Sometime I feel like only now my life has really begun since I met you. Instead of trapping me, you have freed me. Since I do not have to rely on wishful thinking, I do not have to call you the man of my dreams. You are not a fantasy, you are a reality.





    Love PumpkinIf you were me, How would you respond to my Girlfriend's e-mail?
    I would say: Quit posting the same damn question over and over and over you idiot!If you were me, How would you respond to my Girlfriend's e-mail?
    Wow, she is in love with you, deeply! One should be so lucky to have someone write them a letter such as this. wow! wow! wow!





    I would respond with an I love you and move forward together. If you feel the same way she feels about you, then why not go for it? She sounds so sincere and she really sounds like she firmly appreciates and admires you with all her heart!





    Relationships such as one involving a young child can be difficult, I went through it myself with my husband who was previously married with a child and I was only 19 at the time we met, so I was raising a 2 year old and I could have walked away even when it got challenging, but I didn't out of the love I had for him and his child. His child is now 16-1/2 years old and I am so glad I stayed for the ride/journey.





    If you feel even half of what she feels for you, you MUST let her know somehow. Take her out to dinner (if someone can watch the little girl) and let her know how special she and her daughter are to you. If you need to take the girl with you, maybe a cute picnic at the park where the girl can play and you can express your feelings to your g/f.





    Best of luck always and forever!
    Just tell her you love her and keep doing what you have been doing. She wants to make your relationship work and build a life together with the three of you. Respond by telling her you do or don't want to go forward.
    She cares for you, and if you care for her, you will understand what she wants you to know through the e-mail..She's a keeper..
    If you love her, don't tell her you posted this on Yahoo! Answers and do what she clearly wants you to - tell her she is the woman of your life too, and that you love her more than anything. Then maybe marry her, if you are so inclined! :-)
    Say nothing and just kiss her like it will be your last kiss.
    Well, it's very complimentary of you. It's obvious she thinks you are a great person and a positive influence on her child. If you are not serious about her or if you are just playing around you need to reconsider quickly though because there IS a child here who is also getting attached to you. If you have no intention of staying with this woman as she obviously has in staying with you then you need to let her go now. She sounds like a great person %26amp; a loving mom who is appreciative of having found a great guy who respects the fact that she has a child. She is already committed to you in her heart. I think you should feel honored %26amp; flattered for someone to send this to you.
    I don't see the problem here...do you love her? if yes...then go tell her.
    I would tell her to quit stalking you. How many times has she sent you that letter now?
    what do you mean respond? I think she is just honestly telling you how she feels. Being in a bad relationship is VERY hard to get over. I know you are thinking that you aren't that person, but she doesn't and she just needs time to find that out. Sounds like she might already know. Hope this kinda helps.
    How many times and under how many ID's are you going to post this tonight? Just curious.
    That sounds very romantic. You should give her the biggest kiss and tell her how much you love her.
    Why do men want to get involved with women with children (from bad men) You really think this woman would have looked at you twice 10 years ago? 10 years from know when she has a kid with you and is on to her next man she will be calling your the ';bad guy';. Dump her for a woman and a child of your own.
    I think if you feel the same way she does , you should go straight to her side and ask her to marry you.
    From prev response it seems like you posted this over and over so it's either not real and you just want comments for a note you authored yourself (?) or you got scared from getting such a note and don't know what to do - if the latter I would write a loving caring note back to her and tell her you want to take it slow that if it's meant to be it will be some day. Single moms have a tendency to rush into relationships esp those that didn't have a good exp before - so it's up to you to put the reigns on this relationship... that is of course if you want to. If this is for real I think that's what you want to do if not leave her all together. Can tell her you see her as a ';friend'; ...
    Run away... Never,ever, ever date single mothers.

    What can I do to improve my relationship with my girlfriend?

    lately we haven't been getting on as well as normal, we cant really seem to hold a conversation without arguing or getting upset an the we don't talk or even go near each other for a few hours. I want to know why this is happening between us an how we can get our relationship back on track, we also have our 1 year anniversary on th 16th an want to do something romantic but don't know what to do. PLEASE help, I could really use it.What can I do to improve my relationship with my girlfriend?
    You have got to make this anniversary a good one dude. Big romantic dinner, thoughtful gift, good night of sexy time. Take her to her favorite places to go and say that you love her and want to get everything back on track because you miss the fun you used to have. You have to be willing to make sacrifices and so does she so you are both happy.What can I do to improve my relationship with my girlfriend?
    Do your best to see things from her point of view and explain yours to her, try to get to the root of the problem, remind her why shes with you in the first place, do something really special that will suprise her, it dosent need to be anything fancy, just something that will be important to her. Remind her how much you appreciate her and how glad you are that shes in your life, she may just be feeling stressed or there could be an underlying problem. The only way youll find out is through communication.





    For your anniversary, do something meaningful, it could be completely pointless to everyone else, but special between you two, make her a CD of songs that have a meaning to you two, or a photo album, or you could write her a letter with memories of your time together.Hope i helped :)
    do something nice for her. fill her car up with gas, cook her dinner, etc. apologize and talk to her. tell her that you are sorry that things have been rough but you want to try to make it better. ask her why she thinks things are getting dull. it will open up conversation and you could get closer to one another.





    aniversary--- plan a romantic day. like an entire day. wake up and cook her breakfast in bed. go to a museum around lunchtime. go for a walk afterwards. have a picnic. vow not to argue despite if you are really mad. it will be fun. drink a little bit so you can get along? just an idea
    the same thing happen to me and my ex,he went to my college for summer school. We couldnt talk at all! all we said was hey, hows your day? hows ur family? he use to get upset, and angry, i would sit and wait for him for 4 hours, and he just leaves. I knew we were falling apart, and i try talking to him, i asked is anything wrong? you can talk to me, i'll always be here for you, iloveyou, etc...


    he told me his parents were getting divorce, and i understand and gave him a hug. I use to come back to college just to see him. the key is to talk, dont get to pissy. Talk to her, maybe something is bugging her. COmmucation is the KEY! talk to her, before its too late like me and my ex.


    goodluck
    Well.. For Your Anniversary Is There A Movie In The Cinema Your Girlfriend Wants To Watch? If There Is You Could Take Her To Watch Something Then After You Could Go To A Posh Restaurant Or Her Favourite Restaurant Then After You Could Snuggle Up On The Couch Watching A Romantic Film And To Get To The Places You Could Hire A Limo To Impress Her And You Could Pay For Everything And That Way She Would Really Appreciate It! You Might Not Do It That Way Cos Its A Bit Too Much Money Too Spend Lol. Good Luck. x
    sit down with each other. right down things you two like and dislike about each other. if the list of dislike is greater than the likes, try to work on the dislikes. if u two cant and change. then kiss the relationship goodbye. communication is key is a relationship.
    Maybe something is annoying your partner try talking to her, tell her how you are feeling tell her that you love her and miss her company. If this doesn't work maybe the two of you shouldn't be together I hope that is not the case
    Me and my boyfriend went through this too right before our one year... Try being nice even if she fights and do a lot of romantic things. If that doesnt work then the relationship is done. =/
    Dump her.

    I'm thinking about proposing...thoughts?

    Please don't be too harsh. Try to understand our situation:





    I'm 19 and my girlfriend is 18 at the end of July. We have a two-year-old son together and love each other more than anything. We are perfect with each other and want to spend the rest of our lives together. I just love her so much that I want to propose to her. I don't know when, but preferably in the summer I guess...





    I just wanted to ask about where and when you think I should do it. Girls: where would be the most romantic?





    And also, my girlfriend is very protective of our son and she doesn't like leaving him with babysitters. How can I persuade her to leave him for one night?





    Look, lets get one thing straight, I know we are very young but age doesn't matter when it comes to love right? I don't think we are wasting our lives or anything at all! So no critisizing please.





    What do you think?I'm thinking about proposing...thoughts?
    The fact that you have been together so long says something in itself, the flip-side is that if you are that comfortable together that waiting shouldn't be an issue either. Personally, I would go for it...but thats just me, I'm a romanticI'm thinking about proposing...thoughts?
    Only a fool would criticize you. I think what you are doing is great as all men should marry the mother of their child. I hope you have thought about the fact that by the time you are 35 you will be cheating and looking for a younger wife with no wrinkles, since all men are dogs. Or maybe she will leave you for a guy who is a dog if she is snobby. Who knows. If you don't plan on doing these things then I would say leave the baby with grandparents and tell her it's a ';your special to me dinner'; In my opinion restuaurant proposals are so worn out, i would prefer a beach or a nice area along a walking path or some type of unique place, some baseball fields sell propsal packages, or fly her name on a plane.
    Well I think you should do it at her favorite restuarant and on her birthday. Put candles around around the table to make it look romantic. Persuade her to leave yall son at a close relative for the night and if that don't work then bring him along, he won't hurt nothing. Anyways email me (brittanydaniel91@yahoo.com) to tell me how it went.
    i applaud that you wish to provide a home and 2 parents for your child. however you both are so young. if your seperate living situations are not unbearable i would urge you to continue with things as they are for longer time. you may feel all grown up but i can promise you that the young girl isnt.
    go for it....a scenic view is a nice place to propose..or a nice hotel suite..or fancy restaurant
    Yea you are young, but what the hell. Go for it! You love each other and that is what matters. 17 may be frightening for her, but 18 is ok. Oooh! Propose on her birthday! You live in New york...hmmm. lol get her name to appear in big lights! No seriously, go for the usual restaurant if you like, or take her somewhere in the car for the night. Or you could go away for the weekend and stay in a really posh hotel and do it there. Leave your kid with the grandparents or something, surely they are reliable. Good luck. xx
    You should make the arrgements for the childcare with someone responsible...Do it in a public place for example a very nice resturant, have the waiter put the ring in a covered plate or dish, when it arrives have her open it then get down on a knee and propose very loud...

    I need a guys point of view?

    ok, so my boyfriend and i have dated for 3 months once then broke up and got back together after a month. we have been going out forr about 1 month now, and it's a 1 distance long distance relationship. He is really sweet, amazingly hot, and has the greatest personality ever. and we never get tired of each other, but when he is romantic, and sweet and makes me all warm inside, i am speechless back because te things he say are s unbelievebably romantic that even if i say ';ilove you'; back, i am afraid that he might think that i have no more to offer, and i do, it's just that i am not as much as a word artist as he is. there is nothing wrong with the relationship, i just want a guys opinion on if he told his girlfriend a bunch of romantic stuff, then the girlfriend has about half to say but means the same proportion.





    if your girlfriend did that, you wouldn't feel unloved right??


    because one time he ased me how much do you love me ust to be romantic, and i am afraid if tht is a signI need a guys point of view?
    I love you is enough, at least for a guy, or maybe just me. Just tell him how much he means to you.


    EX: ';You mean the world to me, i love you so much.';


    That should workI need a guys point of view?
    if u really feel like he doesnt think u love him next time he says something romantic jump on him and make out then say';i love you';
    3 months is not a long time, Is he saying the L word first and wants to here it from you. What happened to cause the break up? I would say it's not bad to not say it. Just take your time.

    How romantic can you be in one minute?

    Give me some ideas where i can see my hopefully soon to be girlfriend for about a minute and be so romantic that she wants to be with me there and then...?How romantic can you be in one minute?
    It depends on her personality and setting. It really does.





    However, if a guy was trying to woo me, the perfect romantic thing would be to meet him in the rain, and he would hand me a cd with one song on it, and explain that the song reminds him of me. Then he would say how I'm breathtaking, and intelligent and so amazing, and how he would love to be with me. He would say this while looking in my eyes. Then he would ask if I would be his girlfriend. If I liked him I would be a puddle of mush after that!





    Perhaps if she says yes, I would go for a very light, NO TOUNGE kiss on the lips.How romantic can you be in one minute?
    KISSING of course.............affectionate French, sweet gentle soft, passionately wild...etc...





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    I can become very repulsive in one minute, but probably never romantic.
    ';Hey babe, do me!';

    How should I celebrate my first Valentine's Day with my girlfriend?

    I've been going out with her for 11 months and I want to do something special and personal, like making her a romantic dinner. I was thinking of steak or something but I'm not sure what else to do.





    Help?How should I celebrate my first Valentine's Day with my girlfriend?
    Steak goes better with baked potatoes, and have a nice garden salad to go with it. Green beans would be a nice veggie dish, or corn on the cob. Make chocolate covered strawberries for dessert!





    Decorate the table with a vase of her favorite flowers, rose petals, and candles. It will be very romantic and show you really planned to make it a nice day for her.





    If you're older, and in a sexual relationship, you could even plan a bath for two. Have candles, rose petals, bath salts, and bubbles to add a special touch. You could even get massage oils to make her feel extra good.





    For quiet time, rent her favorite romance movie and watch it with her. Guys usually hate chick flicks, so watching one with her will show you really care.How should I celebrate my first Valentine's Day with my girlfriend?
    A Valentine's Day dinner is a perfect idea for such a young couple. Make sure to set the mood though. Nothing too serious just enough to let her know you want to be romantic. Start off with some soft music and make sure you cook something that smell just as good as it tastes...it will warm her up for the actual meal. Light candles. And be sure to not forget the flowers and chocolate. Just because you are doing something for her doesn't mean you can leave off the deal breakers!! She will be wrapped around your finger friend. Good luck.





    ps. It is most important to show that you worked hard for her to have a great time. She will appreciate this. I swear.
    If you're looking for romance, stay away from all that heavy, starchy food. For something hearty that won't glue your butts to the sofa for the rest of the romantic evening, try this:





    Broiled Halibut with butter, chili powder and lime juice, lemon pepper to season.


    Herbed rice


    Tossed Salad





    For dessert, strawberries dipped in chocolate.





    A nice Napa Valley chardonnay would go great with this. It's easy to make, doesn't bog your body down, and unlike asparagus none of this food will give an unpleasant taste to certain gentlemanly body fluids, if you catch my drift.
    If you plan on doing steak, perhaps making red skinned mashed potatoes. And homemade bread rolls of some sort. Also, I would recommend making a sweet dessert, perhaps her favorite!!! And light candles everywhere and rent a good romantic movie to watch as you eat!!
    a dinner with steak mashed potatoes and some thing else on the side would be a good idea for dinner. you should also make a dessert. you could bake cupcakes that say i love you and then her name.
    Make here Pork tenderloin with mashed potatos and grilled asparguas, its all really easy to make and women love it. Just do somethin she likes and buy something personal promise rings are always great to get.
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  • How do you think he feels and what should I do?

    My ex-boyfriend and I act like we are a couple. I love him but I'm not sure if he still loves me or not. I don't know why I'm not his girlfriend again. He planned a romantic surprise for me recently, often pays for dinner even when i offered to pay, has me go places with his family, initiates holding hands and cuddling, made a couple of implications about our future, and usually texts me a lot. I wrote him a letter talking about my confusion- should I give it to him? what do u think ?How do you think he feels and what should I do?
    yes give it to him please! tell him how you feel

    How should i propose to my girlfriend? where should i buy an engagement ring?

    i want ideas on how to propose to my girlfriend when it is the time. I need to come up with a way that's different or romantic in some way.


    And in a seperate, but similar question, where do i buy an engagement ring? I see plenty of places in the mall, but i've heard that they are really owned by the same people. I need to get a decent ring, but i can't spend much....ppl please tell me as much as you can....thanks in advanceHow should i propose to my girlfriend? where should i buy an engagement ring?
    you buy it at a respectable jewelry store.


    dont buy a lab or a russian diamond.How should i propose to my girlfriend? where should i buy an engagement ring?
    Buy the engagement ring in the ring store.Then say to her you look pretty and walk away.It going to work


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    look online, different stores, find something that you think is her. www.overstock.com has some nice rings. To me it doesnt matter where it came from its who it is from. I don't care if its from Walmart!


    I would have a friend or a family member in on it with you, take her back to ';hang out'; at ur place or her's and have candles lit and flowers, when you two come in she'll see everything done up and ask her there. Or if you are near a beach take her to the beach.
    Idea: Send her on a day,maybe a Saturday of pampering. Send her out to the spa, hair salon, send her to a store to buy a lovely outfit for the evening. Before she returns home you cook (or derder dinner) have rose petals leading from the door to the dining area. U all eat everything is lovely, you come out w/ desert, maybe put the ring on top of a cake w/ a pretty ribbon tied to it so she can pull it out easily, get on your knee and purpose.





    To find a ring, i realy like EBAY myself, try them
    Most ';girls'; have in their head as to how the perfect proposal should go. Try to find this out. Does she want to see the proposal on the jumbotron at a basketball game? Does she want to see you down on one knee? Make it her dream -- something she'll always remember.


    Don't buy her diamond at a mall jeweler.


    You're helping to pay their overpriced rent.


    Find a reputable jeweler in a jeweler's building.
    I found a good ring at a pawn shop for a fraction of what it was worth new in the malls. they test the ring for validity in front of you and might even size it right there.





    My name is Jeff, I am answering this for my fiancee. I proposed to her in front of the grand canyon..she wept and thought it was very romantic...I too needed to do something romantic and different. I was lucky we had already planned a trip to arizona..so I took advantage of the situation. You might try taking her to a place with beautiful scenery, find out what places she likes and suprise her..the big thing is to make it a suprise...I hid my ring in a big x-mas present box before we left..she had no idea I was going to propose...





    hope that helps and good luck.
    My Uncle put the ring in a little box, then a bigger box, and so forth until it was in a washer-machine sized box. He gave it to my Aunt on Christmas. She sure was suprised! As for the ring, I have no idea, I'm just a teen.


    Good Luck, hope she says yes!
    I am married, and my engagement was a little different. My husband took me to a great little Avocado festival and at the end of the day gave me a great speech about how much he loves me and if i would marry him. We picked out the rings later, which was great because I got to pick my own ring. Most girls have an idea in their head of what ring they would want when they marry. If you want to make it more special, maybe talk to the store ahead of time (I went to Zales, while they are very commercial, they have great rings and a large selection and have financing available) and have an assortment of rings arranged in your price rang for her to pick from and plan a nice dinner afterward, possibly near the store. So, I would plan a real nice day, give the talk, then store, dinner. Thats what worked for me. Though some girls expect the whole ring with the engagement thing, but it wasnt for me, and my husband realized that ahead of time.
    I think at first you should ask her father for his daughters hand in marriage. Then plan a very romantic dinner for the two of you best place is at home. Have some soft music like Kenny G and get down on one knee and ask her to be the love of your life forever.





    Depending on when you are going to ';pop the question'; another idea is to have a nice dinner together bring her to the beach and play a nice song on your car CD player and dance with her then ask her to marry you.





    There are stores like Zales which you may be able to obtain a credit card and make payments on the ring.
    CONGRATS!!!!


    does it matter who owns the store? but if you r proposing to her, do it in a way that she will always remember. i saw some guy have the police pull them over and have him porpose. (it was on tv) but u could simply put the ring somewhere where she will notice it, and ask her to marry u.......





    GOOD LUCK
    Decent jewelry and or online, think about what she really does like and create a surprise on it, just remember, dont be extra cold, but dont be extra cheery, a lot of girls like it when they are surprised, specially with something or somewhere they love
    Don't do it. Marriage is slavery. If you feel the need to commit to each other, then you don't need a piece of paper or an expensive ceremony to make it work.

    What romantic things would you tell ur girl to complete the silence gap in the phone?

    I mean sometimes we boys say stuff like when we are talkign with our girlfriends, and when both sides are quite we jsut say something romantic and sexy such as, I love and other stuff,, so my question is what else should a guy say, what other cool and creative and sexy things ......... thanks,,,





    PS: do you guys know how to turn this sign (脡) off...... thanksWhat romantic things would you tell ur girl to complete the silence gap in the phone?
    sing something sexy to her

    How do I be more romantic?

    My girlfriend says I need to be romantic. I compliment her all the time, and I asked her to be my girlfriend on my top deck with a great view of the city, and I guess I'm still not romantic.





    By the way, I'm not talking about chocolates, flowers, etc. I'm talking about things I can say/do (actions).





    Thanks!How do I be more romantic?
    Hold her hand whenever you can.


    Walk up behind her and gently pull her into you and just hold her close.


    Listen to her.


    Kiss her with little kisses


    Kiss her like your life depends upon it.How do I be more romantic?
    Be open about everything, tell her exactly how yr feeling at certain special moments. Kiss her forehead, it apparently means you want to look after her and is deeper than a kiss on the lips. Tell her you love her at the most random of times. Leave little notes for her, or call her up just to speak to her, for no other reason. Make her feel beautiful (:
    Hmm.. when your with her do little touches on the face and stuff, girls eat that **** up if you touch them lightly places. Also kiss her cheek and forehead softly now and then. That stuff is really sweet
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  • IS he into me or just using me?

    Ok so ive known this guy for like 5 years, but never thought to much of him, then recently after a party we started sleeping together... i thought it was casual at first but then I started getting those annoying ';I think I'm starting to Like Him'; feelings. I don't know how to read him. Most of the time when we hook up its cuz he called, and its always at his place. but when I try to set something up he isn't free or doesn't answer. But when I am with him he totaly treats me like his Girlfriend. cute, cuddly romantic, affectionate and considerate. we talk, watch tv. play laugh, hold hands. and he stares at at me, in the eyes and tells me i'm beautiful and makes plans. and if I stay over, the next day he tells me how he doesn't want me to go or wants me to come back later. Then he'll walk me to my car, give me a long hug and kiss, but then I won't here from him for a week. I don't know whats going on.





    Help!!!IS he into me or just using me?
    Your booty call and he is just trying to assure that you keep coming around when he wants you to. He wants to keep the good karma going between you two. Keep telling yourself that and hopefully you don't gain anymore feelings.IS he into me or just using me?
    He's using you. I know this because that sounds like what I do.

    How can I make a move to kiss my girlfriend?

    We've actually only been on one date and all we do right now is hug. What can i do to kind of ';activate'; a kiss? Its kinda hard with her, because she talks alot sometimes. Its just hard to get in a ';romantic'; mood that way.How can I make a move to kiss my girlfriend?
    RIGHT HERE:





    If she starts talking too much tell her: Shhhh.......





    Then do what I call the Almost Kiss:





    What you do is you make her swear that she will NOT kiss you when you try to almost kiss her. Tell her the point of this game it to get as close to each others lips as you can.If she doesn't go for it pull away then try again.





    I swear to you she will kiss you by the seconded time.

    Am I right to be upset when he does this, or am I just being paranoid?

    My boyfriend often talks about ex girlfriends and how 'romantic' such and such a time was with them. He also often tells me how 'fit' he thinks certain girls are and often checks other girls out when I'm with him. He also comments on girl's facebooks saying things like 'hey hootie'. Am I right to be upset by these things? Or am I just being stupid?





    Also is there any way I can stop him doing this sort of thing as much as he does?Am I right to be upset when he does this, or am I just being paranoid?
    yes you have every right to be upset... i understand that some guys will look at other girls... but when he is with you that is just cold... he is probably not going to change... i promise you there are guys out there who don't want to talk about there ex girl-friend and how romantic thing were with them... i mean he is with you not his ex... well at the rate he is going he might just be with his ex. if he says you over reacting then just leave him... no guy should ever make a girl feel unappreciated and he is obviously making you feel that way. you can talk to him about how you feel, tell him you don't like when he does that but he will probably say you are over reacting. if he does that then just leave him hon, there is no sense in wasting your time who is not mature enough to realize what he has.Am I right to be upset when he does this, or am I just being paranoid?
    Sounds like he is still playing the field and not ready to settle down. It is one thing to notice an attractive woman, but when a man can evolve past talking about it and be respectful, that is when he is ready to settle down.





    You can't stop him, but you can let him know that you are not going to put up with it and express how. You may want to tell him how it makes you feel taking note of his response will be a true indicator of how much he respects you.
    Yeah he doesn't have any respect for you or your feelings, so the best remedy is to do it to him and see how he likes it.





    If he gets upset, then try to explain why you did what you did. If he really cares about you, he'll make efforts to stop the behavior; if he doesn't, it's better to know now than later, right?
    Yes, you have the right to be upset in my opinion. He should not be doing those things or even talking about his ex-girlfriends like that. You can make the choice and tell him to stop and start acting like your boyfriend or you can kick him to the curb... I'd kick him to the curb though.
    He is crossing the line and is showing that he has no respect for your feelings. You need to tell him to stop and show some respect or your going to leave him... how would he like it if you did that to him...??
    i hate guys who do that. when i was with my GF who i truly loved i barely gave some of my best friends hugs because i respected her and didnt want he to think i liked other girls, most guys if they start doing that they may end up leaving because they dont truly love you.
    if it bothers u then tell him, if these remarks are about physical aperance and your actions throughout the relationship then maybe he thinks u need to work on some things (this is usualy the case) some guys like to reminisce about things they realy liked ask him why he keeps bringing it up and if it is bothering u tell him to stop it.
    Yeah you are right to be upset, especially if he's not doing it for a joke and if he doesn't know whether you're okay with it or not, it is kinda' cruel. I'd talk to him about it because what's the worst that could happen?
    Honestly dont do what these poeple are saying. Like ';getting back at him'; its not worth it. Hes a man whore and he likes the attention. So tell him straight up how you feel. and if he really cared about you, he麓d stop. if not.. well you have your answer. goodluck
    Listen to yourself! You are totally being mentally abused. Is that what you want in a relationship. We all have the right to choose what to do in our lives. Make the right choice!!
    no, he shouldn't be doing that, since he's already with you. go talk to him about it, and tell him you don't like it. he should respect you in this way at the very least.
    I guess that i would be a little worried too. But its easy enough to fix. Just ask him not to. If he persists then its time to seriously think about ending it (if it bothers you as much as i think)
    you cna be upset cuz wat hes doing is wrong tell him that ur his girlfriend now and that if he really wants to talk about his exs or other girls then get with them not you your a person and you deserve respect cuz hes with you (:
    then he doesnt respect you


    nd yu do have the right


    to be bothered by it


    try doing the same thing to him


    try first lookin at guys nd then after while smile


    at them nd compliment as well
    Of course u have the right to be upset. If u boyfriend really liked u, he wouldn't be doing that stuff. get a better guy, u can do so much better.
    ur soo not being paranoid. u should be mad.





    tell him that when he does those things it hurts u. he shouldnt do those things if he's gotta gf.
    When your bf brings up something about ex gf's you have the right to be mad.
    He's being insensitive and disrespectful. Maybe you should try doing it to him and see how he reacts.
    you are right to be upset when he does those things. talk to him and tell him how you feel.
    what the hell!


    dump him!


    he is soo going to cheat on you soon or at any time


    dont take the chance sweetie.


    youre not being stupid he is.


    leave his dumb *** hahah
    Seems like he doesn't respect you.
    The same things he does to make you upset, you do it too. See if he can take it....
    HES NOT RIGHT
    he sounds like the type to cheat. i would give him an ultimatum
    hes trying to make you jealous, so that you will ';give him more';
    ok thats gay. hes a man hoe. tell him to straighten up and that ur his gf not every other girl in da world
    insensative jerk.





    tell him thats if his exs where so great, why isnt he with them?


    i would first talk to him and ask why he feels the need to comment like that on other girls fb's and tell you how fit he thinks other people are.





    if he doesnt listen, play him at his owm game and see how it makes him feel.


    tell him one of the most romantic things an ex did for you, tell him how fit that guy across the road is.


    tell him how you saw a fit guy at work/school why was really flirty with you etc.





    i would have a problem with that if he was my man, all except cheking girls out (as long as its just a quick look) thats just something that is hard not to do.





    good luck!

    How to properly welcome my girlfriend who's been away for Xmas?

    My mind really got stuck on this one. She's been away for two weeks and she's coming back this Monday. I need to do something incredibly imaginative with her the day she arrives but I can't decide what!





    By the way, I don't want to do stuff like fancy/romantic dinner or have some drinks or anything else 95% of earth's population would do.


    I really love her and need that something special and perfect.


    Thanks people!How to properly welcome my girlfriend who's been away for Xmas?
    be naked when she comes to the door hahha... i would love if a guy did that for me.... if she doesnt have a good sense of humor about that kind of stuff then don't do that HAHAHow to properly welcome my girlfriend who's been away for Xmas?
    hi ..ok well if you want my advice then what i would do is the day she come home surprise her and go over her house... then offer to help her unpack..which will impress her ..and if you help her unpack then that will show her tht your thought ful, and give u more time to spend with her. there for after words you can ask her if she wants to go see a movie either at the movie theator or at your or her house. and you say you probably had a long ride home and trip so i thougth you might wanna relaxe... dont worry if you follow my directions then everythign willl work out perfectly . its not to fancy but yet its not to lame... so just beileve me and do it because i am a girl myself and know what we like...

    How should I kiss my girlfriend?

    Well we've been going out for a while, and she started talking to me about kissing. She told me how she wanted to make out with me, and played along with it. Today I was planning to do it as we said goodbye and simply go in for the kiss but I decided it wasnt very romantic. I definitely want to do it, but I need help on what to say.





    I want to sort of tell something sweet before I do it? Any ideas?How should I kiss my girlfriend?
    I, as a girl, have always been a little restraint about really making-out at first. I think you should find yourself somewhere quite comfortable. Like... compliment her, but don't rub it in. Perhaps remind her of a pleasant memory. The day you met? A day you went out and everything was right? Don't mention ';your day'; unless she likes knowing these things. Yeah, don't small talk. Just put it right out there, and be sincere. Give your best, what comes from your heart. Oh! And please, please don't say I love you until it's the right time. Um... I hope this gave you what you wanted.How should I kiss my girlfriend?
    you dont need words


    u just need to be close


    very close


    hold her hand


    make sure shes in the moment


    then stare her deep in the eyes like you are about to fall in


    then move your face closer to hers


    if she raises her head to you then you can go in for it, if not keep going for it, some girls dont know what to do lol


    but if she backs away then she doesnt want to, which i dont think would be the case


    good luck
    What you wanna do instead of saying something is look at her in the eyes, then down at her lips and back at her eyes. If she looks at your lips then it's time to kiss.





    Or one fantastic idea i read on here once is while you're hanging out with her you could send her a text message that says ';i really wanna kiss you';
    Not that you can't do it better your way... but it might be a good idea to kiss first and tell her something sweet after! That's how I do it at least.





    But if you prefer to say something sweet first... try this:





    ';Your lips look so delicious but I need to find out for sure.';





    Then show no mercy for a few minutes and afterwards tell her you were right!
    well, my cousin had her first kiss during a shooting star. but maybe you could bring her some flowers or a stuffed animal and then kiss her. or write her a song or poem and then after you read it, then kiss her. good luck
    Yes, you should kiss her especially if she initiated the topic. Just do it lightly the first few times like a peck and then a little more seriously after that. You don't have to say anything, she's your girlfriend after all!
    you dont really want to tell the girl anything before you kiss because then you will have a very likely chance of saying something stupid. im the king of saying things excessively and at the wrong time. take it from an expert haha
    Kiss her softly first along the jawline, then a little lower on the neck... and then move in on her lips.. its sweet that way
    lean in and kind of hold her head and make it romantic not just fast but slowly lean in and tell her she looks beautiful or gorgeous just think of something
    Yeh,give her a peck on the lips when she leaves,then poke her and when she turns around start kissing her.Works everytime.
    Grab both of her hand romantically and go like for a 90/10 kiss to make sure she does want to kiss you
    well maybe when you are leaving in front a whole buch of peeps kiss her then hug and say bye1!
    just grab her hand, and kiss her lightly-sincerely
    with brushed teeth and mouth wash

    How can I get my babydaddy to admit that he had cheated on me in the past with his ex girlfriend?

    I have been with my babydaddy for almost 3 years in september and his ex bestfriend and ex girlfriend told me that he cheated on me in da past with her,but he wont admit it. He always gets a attitude and says when he does tell me da truth and say he didnt cheat it dnt be what I wanna hear and we start arguing and he wont call me for a few days.I cheated on him once because he only called me twice a week and talked to me for like 10 min. and say he would call me wen he got off and never would i tried to tell him how i felt but he would always tell me he would call me back before i could,so i found attention from anotha man and i felt bad so i told him he broke up with me but he got back wit me like 5 days later and said he could'nt live without me and kept thinkin bout me. He's in chicago right now he has been there for almost a year he will be back here to stay this weekend and i dnt kno if he's cheating i would think he his cuz we dnt see each otha and barely talk but he says he loves me and he has bought me an engagement ring i caught a glimps of it but he said it wasnt da right time cuz it wasnt romantic enough, so he just have'nt given it to me yet. I love him so much and all his friends ad family tell me how much he love me but i cant trust him because he use to be a hoe and cheat on everyone but he says he loves me and hes changed and dis is da longest relationship we both have had and he wants us to be a family what should i think or do?How can I get my babydaddy to admit that he had cheated on me in the past with his ex girlfriend?
    forget it find a real man How can I get my babydaddy to admit that he had cheated on me in the past with his ex girlfriend?
    It sounds like neither of you even can grasp what the word ';love '; means. You cheats, he cheats,,, you want him too admit, it who cares!!you guys treat eachother like crap ... if you dont trust him and he doesnt trust you.. you two both need to find someone else..
    its gonna hurt, but do what is best for u and ur baby... if hes cheated in the past, he probably will again... he probably has been while in chicago... find someone else who wants u for u not just a lay... good luck
    you have to trust him there is not much you can do if he says he hasn't them trust him
    Don't take this relationship seriously and get back with him. Just see what happens with him.
    once a cheater allways a cheater!!!!!!!!!!!! he will do it again
    Don't be so needy stop bugging him.


    If you call him less and make him feel like what he is doing is stupid then he'll give into you.


    Oh and keep on dressing fly, make him feel like he's being a complete jerk for treating such a beautiful person in such a way.


    oh and tell him that you want an open honest relationship.
    Any man who gets mad at his girlfriend for asking a personal question is MAD because they don't want the stress of having to lie again or try and remember what the last answer to that question was the last time it was asked. It sounds like you need to dump him and get your tubes tied.


    Guys who lie about important things like this usually lie about other stuff. Just hope he isn't cheating on you NOW. Start using a condom with him and if he ask why, tell him it is because you don't trust him because you can't trust him BECAUSE he won't give you an honest (not mad) answer.
    Ma I know exactly what you goin threw me and my bd been with eachother 8 years on and off and he cheated on me left and right when i was pregnant the ***** even ****** my best friend but after 8 months of me doin my own thing while he was locked up he felt so hurt and like any bd he said he couldn't even live with out me or his son and I stay in Chicago and he stays in Milwaukee now so we been havin a long distance relationship goin on 5 months and I haven't cheated on him and I really believe he hasn't cheated on me since before we got back together this time so I feel what ever your heart says go with it, a lot of people tell me that they ****** my bd but I don't listen to that **** cuz half that **** ain't true and if he ain't slip up with it yet aventrolly it will so you'll know at the end! GOOD LUCK HOPE I HELP ANSWER SOMETHING THAT WAS ON YOUR MINE!
    i would say that he is probably cheating, and that you deserve someone much better! if he wanted you to be a family, then he should have thought about that b4 he was an a$$. and about that ring, i hope it was really ment for you.......you never know, men, not all, but most, are pigs! if he cheated and wont admit it, that would be really hard to deal with, especially if you know for a fact he did it. its almost like hed lie to death, or have to be caught in the act.......and once a hoe, always a hoe.....

    First date?

    So I found out one of my good friends really likes me. So I asked her to homecoming and she said yes. I wasn't sure how much she liked me, but my best friend said that she really liked me and that I should ask her out before it. I was thinking of taking her to a new movie at midnight. But I wasn't sure what I can do at the movies on our first date. She's comfortable with hugs and stuff, but we haven't kissed. Should I take another friend with me and his girlfriend? If a romantic scene does occur should I kiss her?First date?
    just make it you %26amp; her alone. no one says you guys have to hug or kiss. just take things slow. maybe take some time to just talk %26amp; enjoy each others company [=First date?
    of course

    How can I help my son?

    He lives with his female best friend and realizes that ';he is totally into her';. She was in love with him but he wasn't interested in a romantic way. Now the girlfriend has another guy who she is wild over and the three of them spend so much time together including the two of them sleeping together in the house. My son is heartsick and the girl %26amp; new guy know, are sympathetic but the story is unchanged. He wants her in his life, if only as a friend and refuses to move out. He said if he gets through this he'll grow stronger.


    My son is depressed and is now experiencing panic attacks, and has trouble sleeping. He also will not see a doctor over this anxiety. As a mom, I feel totally helpless.How can I help my son?
    look for a local number you could phone, i wouldnt take advice off anyone on here it will just mess both of your heads up.





    good luck

    How I can create a friendship or romantic relationship with a girl start online?

    my age is 26 years and up to now i haven't any girlfriend, my life spend on education.


    Now, after graduated from university I want to make relationship with good friends .How I can create a friendship or romantic relationship with a girl start online?
    Starting a relationship online can be very annoying....and its hard to know who to trust anymore. and sometimes people online are just looking for one thing....SEX! so just be careful. you sound like a decent enough guy to be able to find a girlfriend off the web, i'd just go for it, online relationships can be a joke sometimes....:)How I can create a friendship or romantic relationship with a girl start online?
    make sure to drool a lot.


    tell them you're waiting until marriage to have sex.


    breathe loudly through your nose


    don't wash your face


    be super creepy


    get a cool nickname, like ';j-flo';


    always, ALWAYS, say, ';we sound like fricken' cats!';
    sign up for match.com where you live locally...answer questions honestly on your profile...dont lie...i met my husband on match.com, and we just celebrated 2 yr anniversary...he's wonderful
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  • I've lost my girlfriend of 9 yrs. How can i show romance without showing weakness?

    She says she didn't feel loved, that i used to be romantic and that's who she fell in love with, that i stopped being romantic..I think being romantic shows weakness and is kinda corny...but i love her we have a son together and i want to marry her.. but i need to win her back and need to learn how to show her that i can be the way i once was..HELP!!I've lost my girlfriend of 9 yrs. How can i show romance without showing weakness?
    If you want to marry this woman you have to show VULNERABILITY....... not weakness.





    Romance is good, although I don't like the corny traditional way of going about it such as getting flowers and eye gazing, I do however, would like my husband to tell me he loves me, to hold my hand, to hug me and just be a better companion.





    Being romantic doesn't mean you are weak, it means you are willing to show vulnerability and if you want her back, you must show this side of yourself to her otherwise she wont take you seriously.I've lost my girlfriend of 9 yrs. How can i show romance without showing weakness?
    Dude, you have to be corny!


    Even super strong women love to feel adored, cherished and admired.


    It isn't corny to stare into her eyes, tell her you love her and send her flowers. I am repeating myself from a previous post, but everyone needs to do this more often than not.





    Better to be accused of being corny than cold...





    * Telling her I love her


    * Doing extra chores around the house


    * Giving her a card NOT on a holiday


    * Sending her a naughty text every other day


    * Giving her a foot massage at the end of the week


    * Making dinner once in a while


    * Complimenting her in front of her friends


    * Sending her to the spa for a whole day


    * Volunteering with her at our favorite charity


    * Doubling our foreplay time and driving her crazy


    * Always making her orgasm once or twice before I do


    * Staring at her for long periods without saying a word


    * Listening to her stories without interrupting
    you are totally confused. weakness and romance are not the same. but sometimes it is good to show that you are vulnerable to her. what you need is to take down your wall and just be you. do something you think will be sweet and romantic for her. we can't help you with that because then it isn't really genuine. stop worrying about weakness and just give yourself to her, that is if you didn't really blow it already seeing as to how she left you.
    It is corny if it is insincere.





    She does not want you to be courting her.





    She wants you to understand and recognize the deeper aspects of her. She feels she is with a stranger because you are not recognizing her.


    You have to understand her and find out how to love her.





    Romance means intimacy not theatrics.
    Romance shows weakness??? That's stupid!! Isn't a relationship supposed to be two people coming together, sharing everything, becoming one?? Especially if you have a kid??????





    You need to change your opinion on this, guy. Until you do, you won't want to be romantic and you'll lose her.
    look most men become comfortable in a relationship and for get what got them there, if u love her and want her back than u will do what it takes, u would act like a fool in front of a crowd if that would show her, the only weakness u have my friend is being to lazy to work for what u love.
    You just have to show her that you are overheel in love with her, thats what she wants and its not corny because if you are inlove you are willing to make anything even the impossible just to make your partner happy, that whats matter to make her happy and she will not leave you.
    love and strength are not two contradicted things.All you have to do is to show each of them on the right time. You can consult your girl friend in every matter, but let the last decisionn be yours and make her understand that. Remember. gifts can help you.
    There are many ways to be romantic without being over the top and corny. Think about the little things you did in the beginning of your relationship to keep her interested...
    you let the guys talk you out of a good woman it may be too late ! what ever you try to do it wont be genuine and she will notice that!
    Romance is not weak and definitley not corny. You say you love her...she has told you what she needs..she needs/wants romance...what is stopping you from being romantic?
    being romantic is not showing weakness that is just silly*
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