Am I right to be upset when he does this, or am I just being paranoid?

My boyfriend often talks about ex girlfriends and how 'romantic' such and such a time was with them. He also often tells me how 'fit' he thinks certain girls are and often checks other girls out when I'm with him. He also comments on girl's facebooks saying things like 'hey hootie'. Am I right to be upset by these things? Or am I just being stupid?





Also is there any way I can stop him doing this sort of thing as much as he does?Am I right to be upset when he does this, or am I just being paranoid?
yes you have every right to be upset... i understand that some guys will look at other girls... but when he is with you that is just cold... he is probably not going to change... i promise you there are guys out there who don't want to talk about there ex girl-friend and how romantic thing were with them... i mean he is with you not his ex... well at the rate he is going he might just be with his ex. if he says you over reacting then just leave him... no guy should ever make a girl feel unappreciated and he is obviously making you feel that way. you can talk to him about how you feel, tell him you don't like when he does that but he will probably say you are over reacting. if he does that then just leave him hon, there is no sense in wasting your time who is not mature enough to realize what he has.Am I right to be upset when he does this, or am I just being paranoid?
Sounds like he is still playing the field and not ready to settle down. It is one thing to notice an attractive woman, but when a man can evolve past talking about it and be respectful, that is when he is ready to settle down.





You can't stop him, but you can let him know that you are not going to put up with it and express how. You may want to tell him how it makes you feel taking note of his response will be a true indicator of how much he respects you.
Yeah he doesn't have any respect for you or your feelings, so the best remedy is to do it to him and see how he likes it.





If he gets upset, then try to explain why you did what you did. If he really cares about you, he'll make efforts to stop the behavior; if he doesn't, it's better to know now than later, right?
Yes, you have the right to be upset in my opinion. He should not be doing those things or even talking about his ex-girlfriends like that. You can make the choice and tell him to stop and start acting like your boyfriend or you can kick him to the curb... I'd kick him to the curb though.
He is crossing the line and is showing that he has no respect for your feelings. You need to tell him to stop and show some respect or your going to leave him... how would he like it if you did that to him...??
i hate guys who do that. when i was with my GF who i truly loved i barely gave some of my best friends hugs because i respected her and didnt want he to think i liked other girls, most guys if they start doing that they may end up leaving because they dont truly love you.
if it bothers u then tell him, if these remarks are about physical aperance and your actions throughout the relationship then maybe he thinks u need to work on some things (this is usualy the case) some guys like to reminisce about things they realy liked ask him why he keeps bringing it up and if it is bothering u tell him to stop it.
Yeah you are right to be upset, especially if he's not doing it for a joke and if he doesn't know whether you're okay with it or not, it is kinda' cruel. I'd talk to him about it because what's the worst that could happen?
Honestly dont do what these poeple are saying. Like ';getting back at him'; its not worth it. Hes a man whore and he likes the attention. So tell him straight up how you feel. and if he really cared about you, he麓d stop. if not.. well you have your answer. goodluck
Listen to yourself! You are totally being mentally abused. Is that what you want in a relationship. We all have the right to choose what to do in our lives. Make the right choice!!
no, he shouldn't be doing that, since he's already with you. go talk to him about it, and tell him you don't like it. he should respect you in this way at the very least.
I guess that i would be a little worried too. But its easy enough to fix. Just ask him not to. If he persists then its time to seriously think about ending it (if it bothers you as much as i think)
you cna be upset cuz wat hes doing is wrong tell him that ur his girlfriend now and that if he really wants to talk about his exs or other girls then get with them not you your a person and you deserve respect cuz hes with you (:
then he doesnt respect you


nd yu do have the right


to be bothered by it


try doing the same thing to him


try first lookin at guys nd then after while smile


at them nd compliment as well
Of course u have the right to be upset. If u boyfriend really liked u, he wouldn't be doing that stuff. get a better guy, u can do so much better.
ur soo not being paranoid. u should be mad.





tell him that when he does those things it hurts u. he shouldnt do those things if he's gotta gf.
When your bf brings up something about ex gf's you have the right to be mad.
He's being insensitive and disrespectful. Maybe you should try doing it to him and see how he reacts.
you are right to be upset when he does those things. talk to him and tell him how you feel.
what the hell!


dump him!


he is soo going to cheat on you soon or at any time


dont take the chance sweetie.


youre not being stupid he is.


leave his dumb *** hahah
Seems like he doesn't respect you.
The same things he does to make you upset, you do it too. See if he can take it....
HES NOT RIGHT
he sounds like the type to cheat. i would give him an ultimatum
hes trying to make you jealous, so that you will ';give him more';
ok thats gay. hes a man hoe. tell him to straighten up and that ur his gf not every other girl in da world
insensative jerk.





tell him thats if his exs where so great, why isnt he with them?


i would first talk to him and ask why he feels the need to comment like that on other girls fb's and tell you how fit he thinks other people are.





if he doesnt listen, play him at his owm game and see how it makes him feel.


tell him one of the most romantic things an ex did for you, tell him how fit that guy across the road is.


tell him how you saw a fit guy at work/school why was really flirty with you etc.





i would have a problem with that if he was my man, all except cheking girls out (as long as its just a quick look) thats just something that is hard not to do.





good luck!