Need help in relationship with my girlfriend?

We have been dating for almost 6 months. But i dont know what happened, she has been saying that she feels like she is loosing me and that she doesnt love me as much as she used to. but she says she still loves me. Some reasons she gave for this was that when we first started going out, we rushed into sexual activity. she said she regrets it and wishes we would have been friends first. another reason is that she says i dont act like my old self. i kind of agree, lately ive had a short temper and cuss and yell alot when im angry. (NOT at her). But i have calmed down from that. I treat this girl right, I really love her. But what the hell did i do to derserve this? we talked about this a couple hours ago. I guess we are still going out, because she loves me and i love her. we made suggestions how to fix this, she said we should not see each other for a couple of days. I suggested we spend time together and just talk intimately and romanticaly, and go out , spend time together an do romantic things. I think we're doing my idea tomorrow and see how it goes. But I need to know what should i do to fix this? how can i get her to need me and love me so much again? is it my personality or what?Need help in relationship with my girlfriend?
if a girl ever regrets sex with you, she REALLY doesn't love you anymore.


I don't love my ex anymore but I don't regret sex with him because I loved him at the time.Need help in relationship with my girlfriend?
I would suggest going on a date. Spend some time together, and put everything else aside.


If at the end of the evening you two still care about each other despite any little fights or short tempered moments then its worth and is possible to fix.





When you have a lot going on and dont treat each other ';right'; from stress it effects the relationship. Take her out and show her how you feel.
this is something that if you want this to work. you are going to need to do the


work to save what you two have. stop changing your plans with her. women hate


that. go back to your old self like the way the two of you were.
you hav to treat ur girl with respect if u love her :)
I think your girlfriend is afraid that there isn't any substance to the relationship. She mentioned that you both rushed into sexual activity, she might feel that the relationship is mainly based on physical and sexual attraction and doubts the strength of your bond with her. I don't think it is a good idea for you to not see each other. Instead I think you should hang out with one another, romantically, but not engage in anything too sexual...kisses here and there of course are fine. Do something fun like an amusement park or hiking or paintball fighting, something engaging where you're both having an awesome time together but it isn't based on anything sexual.





Get to know one another not just as girlfriend and boyfriend but as friends, your relationship will last much longer if you do. :)
She doesn't regret the sex she had with him... she regrets not holding back at all. Ok first of all the first flame wave of your relationship has subsided, and now you're in the beginning stages of a longterm relationship. It's really a whole different ballgame, the emotions that we have at the start of a relationship are more constant and often more intense than the feelings that come at the second stage. This is a low period perhaps because you've unmasked yourselves enough to really see each others faults and shortcomings rather than the idealistic thoughts of Mr. and Mrs. Right. This is where the depth of your love is tested. The keys are effort and communication, get these two things right, and I'll bet your hearts will entwine as deeply as they can.
It sounds to me like your crowding her,Like she feels smothered.Maybe you should back off a bit


and give her some breathing room.She wanted a couple of days break but you got in there and


probabaly made her feel guilty so she argeed to do what you wanted.Is this how you want it?


No matter how she feels as long as you can be with her?.Dont you want someone you dont have to force to be with you.You cant make someone feel anything,they either do or dont or are not sure,


Let her be,and maybe if your lucky,she'll decide she wants to be with you.
Honestly, it could be your personality. You sound a little arrogant. It sounds like you are really trying to hear what she is saying, but somehow, you are missing it.





If you both made suggestions on how to fix this, and hers was to leave it alone for a couple days (a couple is defined as 2) but you are going out TOMORROW, and doing your idea, how are you listening to her? She asked for 2 days off to think, you are not respecting that.





From the brief paragraph that you wrote, you seem kind of entitled and dramatically exaggerating things. Asking rhetorically, what the hell did you do to deserve this, implies that she is unreasonable or irrational. You know what you did: you have been getting scary angry, swearing and showing that you have a short temper. Not good qualities for a long term relationship, even if there is love. You can certainly love someone but not be compatible or even a good couple. Even though you think you treat her right, it is clear that she does not agree, otherwise she would not have suggested that you let things cool down a bit.





You need to learn how to handle your anger better, not just to seduce her, but because it is an important skill that you are lacking. If you want to be a better person, you have got to manage your anger calmly and maturely.