EX GIRLFRiEND Romantic Dinner?? LONGISH.. Opinions please!?

We broke up for the second time about a month and a half ago. I broke up with her both times. A week or so after we broke up, I told her that I really loved her and everything. She wouldn't take me back because she said that we ';needed time to focus on ourselves.';





After that, I didn't talk to her for three weeks, and then I called her. We talked for a long time catching up. The next weekend I invited her to a friends and we drank a bit, and then cuddled on the sofa and fell asleep. In the morning, we woke up and I kissed her a lot and then we got lunch and later that night we went out to a movie, where she grabbed my hand. We had an awkward goodbye though, since we both didn't know if it was okay to kiss each other.





I've been talking to her some this week and I dont know if I just feel awkward talking to her cus I'm nervous I dont know how shee feels or something? I don't know if she can tell since she's always been really giggly when she talks to me thats just how she is.





This Sunday we are going out on a double date with my best friend and this girl he's interested in. We are going to an art exhibit, and me and my ex have a 'bet' on who can draw the best. If I win, I told her we go to dinner, and if she wins I have to give her a birthday present I never delivered on.





So, chances are I'm going to win. I was thinking of setting up a romantic dinner at my place (it's an hour away so I don't know if she'd be up for it). I was going to re arrange my apartment so we have a nice place to sit, and set up candles, the table with a flower(rose?) and the whole works pretty much. Then I was going to cook dinner for her. After that, I would either take her home or if I'm lucky we'd just spend the night here at my place.





Do you think this is WAY too soon and scare her off?


If I set up the dinner what are somethings I should be sure to do?EX GIRLFRiEND Romantic Dinner?? LONGISH.. Opinions please!?
Why did you dump her twice?You say you ';really love her'; yet YOU dumped her twice.


Something is wrong with this picture son.Either she has a serious character flaw or you do.She is right you both need time to work on your short comings.EX GIRLFRiEND Romantic Dinner?? LONGISH.. Opinions please!?
I think that for now you shouldn't go all out on the romantic thing.


It might freak her out a little bit.


Maybe at the dinner you should ask her how she feels about everything.


But talk like just as friends.


Not serious otherwise it will spoil the evening.





So id make it just like a friendly dinner. And o can both chill out and relax and just talk that way , it wont ruin anything if you've planned a big night.





I think it would be easier that way for the both of you.


That way threes no awkwardness if she doesn't feel the same way and then she walks in to find a huge romantic dinner :)





Best of luck though


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