LONG Should I take my ex girlfriend to a romantic dinner? What are some necessary things I should do for it?

We broke up for the second time about a month and a half ago. I broke up with her both times. A week or so after we broke up, I told her that I really loved her and everything. She wouldn't take me back because she said that we ';needed time to focus on ourselves.';





After that, I didn't talk to her for three weeks, and then I called her. We talked for a long time catching up. The next weekend I invited her to a friends and we drank a bit, and then cuddled on the sofa and fell asleep. In the morning, we woke up and I kissed her a lot and then we got lunch and later that night we went out to a movie, where she grabbed my hand. We had an awkward goodbye though, since we both didn't know if it was okay to kiss each other.





I've been talking to her some this week and I dont know if I just feel awkward talking to her cus I'm nervous I dont know how shee feels or something? I don't know if she can tell since she's always been really giggly when she talks to me thats just how she is.





This Sunday we are going out on a double date with my best friend and this girl he's interested in. We are going to an art exhibit, and me and my ex have a 'bet' on who can draw the best. If I win, I told her we go to dinner, and if she wins I have to give her a birthday present I never delivered on.





So, chances are I'm going to win. I was thinking of setting up a romantic dinner at my place (it's an hour away so I don't know if she'd be up for it). I was going to re arrange my apartment so we have a nice place to sit, and set up candles, the table with a flower(rose?) and the whole works pretty much. Then I was going to cook dinner for her. After that, I would either take her home or if I'm lucky we'd just spend the night here at my place.





Do you think this is gesture would be too soon and scare her off?


If I set up the dinner what are somethings I should be sure to do?LONG 陋潞 Should I take my ex girlfriend to a romantic dinner? What are some necessary things I should do for it?
This one I would be slow at, dont rush in or she will run away for good. But think back why did you break up those two times ago. The reason is there. Sometimes it is easier to be comofrtable when this is all you know. Try and be her friend show some compassion but, dont burrier her too much. Try doing something simple, like going out for a pizza and a good view, nice location. when she can feel comfortable with you. not pressured back your house, then as a chick I would be thinking he wants me in bed. baby steps before you take big steps, enjoy each others company with out the pressure. Then she will see you for you and her for her. Obviously she was drowning in the relationship, and felt she was loosing her indentity.





If you love her respect her wishes. Talk about her and her plans for life, now and later. Dont get too heavy, and have some fun together.





All the best anywayLONG 陋潞 Should I take my ex girlfriend to a romantic dinner? What are some necessary things I should do for it?
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