Should I tell him how i feel? HELP!?

Hey, This is going to be pretty long but I need help bad =(


I met this guy thru an online dating site, at first he didn’t seem interested but after i told him more about me he started to get more interested. we finally exchanged numbers and spoke on the phone. Our conversations are GREAT…Much chemistry. However its now has been THREE months later and the convos are still great (we talk for hours upon hours, EVERY SINGLE DAY) except we never speak about ';us';. Im a fairly shy girl (afraid of rejection) unless I’m made comfy and he clearly states (every chance he gets) that he is shy as well. Therefore certain topics like sex, past girlfriends, romantic stuff, etc. he doesn’t come out and speak on them right away. And i don’t bring them up because i dont want him to think im some kind of ';fast ***'; (lol). Anyways, we went out only TWICE within 3 1/2 months (is that strange??) he never asks to see me and im too scared of bring in it up because i guess im scared of hearing NO. But if i do hint at seeing him, he claims he's “homebody”, which is true..he only works and goes to school. I know cuz he is always on the phone with me


I know it may seem weird as to why i really really like this guy, but he is extremely sweet, caring, funny (i mean hilarious) and i love a guy who makes me smile. If im feeling down, he's always there and vice versa. We never kissed on any of the TWO dates and he is sort of quiet in person , which is weird cuz on the phone we talk like two ppl who havent spoke in years (lol)


Basically, what i wanna know is:


1. Does he like me at all? (i figure he must a little, cuz my guys friends say a guy would never chat on the phone with a girl till X in the AM if he didnt like her) But is he just being nice


2. Should I tell him how i feel? ( i dont wanna scare him away because he's been hurt a lot, and i think he's scared of catching feelings for a girl)


3. Should I just wait and see (maybe let him make the first move, if he ever does lol)


and


4. Should i just cut him loose if im wasting my time? ( ive been hurt alot by men so i know a thing or two about not keeping someone around if they are just here to take up space) But keep in mind he is certainly a great guy, maybe a great friend....but i wanna be way MORE than friends with him.





Sorry this is so long, but im soooo confused by all his mixed signals...Help =(. lolShould I tell him how i feel? HELP!?
It seems to me that he is just as afraid of rejection as you are. He must be a really fragile person, hiding behind phones and pc screens, afraid to let himself loose in person. Talking on the phone for hours with a stranger means that you have a weird emotional connection. I would suggest that you start chatting about more personal stuff, your feelings, your wishes and likes.. Don't ask him about previous relationships! Just try to approach him, open up first, tell him about your experiences and how you got hurt by men. Bringing up more intimate and romantic topics will not make you look ';fast';, the problem is that he's too ';slow';. If you really truly trust a person u met online, and since he's a homebody invite him over to your house to watch a movie and eat pizza, u know casual friendly stuff.. He may feel more comfortable in the coziness of your house than in a busy cafe. Plus, showing him your personal space will pass the message that you want him to be a part of your more intimate life.