My GF broke up because she thought we acted as ';just friends'; and weren't romantic enough. I know she still likes my personality and finds me attractive, I just need ideas on how I can show I am romantic. But the problem is, I won't see her for two weeks. What are some things I can do to get her back, either now or when I see her?What are some romantic ideas to get back with my girlfriend?
Hello
Winning back your ex girlfriend is a very difficult thing to do. It is a lot easier to generate feelings in someone, than it is to change their feelings. But if you take the right steps, and more importantly don't do the wrong things, your chances increase dramatically.
Here are some steps that helped me to get my ex girlfriend back:
Don't Ask Her To Get Back Together
You should never ask her to get back together. Why? Simple, because her answer will be NO!
You're only shot at getting her back is to do the right things that will make her ask you to get back together. Maybe if you broke up with her, then you might be able to be the one who brings up the subject of getting back together. But if you can do it without, it would be much better.
But how do you get someone back without seeming desperate? In order to get your ex girlfriend attention, you have to show value without telegraphing your interest in her, while at the same time initiating interaction.
So don't ignore your ex texts and calls when they break up with you. It screams that you are so devastated by the breakup that you can't even handle talking to her. You want to respond to her, but do it in the right way. You can even initiate communication if you do it in the right way.
You have to maintain a strong frame of confidence, and show her that your happiness isn't dependent on being with her.
Don't Be Jealous
Listen to me ...SHE IS GONNA DATE SOMEONE ELSE. Let that sink in good. And not only is she gonna date someone else, it will probably be someone you know, maybe even one of your friends. Tough to swallow I know. It's ok if it bothers you, but don't let it show and don't call her out on it. Remember, you are not together anymore, and you don't have any right to tell her what to do.
If you do want to win her back, then you just have to weigh the decision.
Be Flexible
Do not be that stereotypical angry ex. Do not throw out their stuff or demand for them to come pick up their stuff right now. It's better to be flexible, easy-going and understanding. A person who doesn't take things too seriously is an attractive quality in itself. It may inspire your ex girlfriend to start communicating with you again very fast.
These tips were helpful for me to get my ex girlfriend back. However, if you really want to get her back I will recommend to get good guide on how to get your ex back. There are many guides out there but most of them are crap (I tried too many of them...).
You can learn about one of the best and most popular guides on how to get your ex girlfriend back in this blog:
http://www.backwithextips.com/ex2-system鈥?/a>
all the bestWhat are some romantic ideas to get back with my girlfriend?
a gift would be nice. buying her things like.. a teddy bear, flower, box of chocolate.. we appericate that.. or having a picture of her in your wallet.. showing your pictures to her.. write her a poem.. tell her that you miss her.. tell her that you think of her... send her a card like today..! hopefully you win her heart back and please.. do it like you really mean it....
Dude, in the two weeks you haven't seen her she will have boned a ton of other guys. Best you do a at least a few girls before you talk to her again or you'll have seriously lost out.
make something personal those things are romantic:)
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